"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girl putting her number in your phone when getting the digits.

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MisterMcGee

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doesn't mean much. It's so early on.
Call her and see how it goes from there, of course.
 

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PHAT Rabbit said:
Uhh yeah I'd say that's a show high IL... but don't get too wrapped up into it you still have to be on top of your game. Take it as an IOI but nothing more good luck with the follow up.
thanks. Just thought it was odd cause there's really no point to it. Never had a girl do that, except when they put their number in my phone when i didnt even ask them for it. And im always on top of my game bro :up:
 

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i mean, if some guy you didnt really like wanted your number, would you GRAB his phone and put YOUR digits in. I think it was a subconscious way of her making the whole getting her number process as effortless and easy for me as possible...just my take on it.
 

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PHAT Rabbit said:
I thoroughly agree Tear Gas... but girls get approached all the time and probably by men they have high IL in - I mean only 3 types of guys approach: 1) Confident bastards who are successful 2) Crazy people who want to improve or get a rush from social anxiety 3) Guys who rarely approach and get the courage to make a move (and probably get rejected and revert back to not approaching for months-years). So you're really left with 1+2 which is probably a group of interesting, decent looking males who women will find attractive or at least more so than the average population. That being said, she's probably been attracted to approaching males before -- so don't read too much into it and let the game proceed.
Yeah, you're right, im reading way too much into it. It's just a number.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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