Girl pulls out vibrator when having sex

[Dazzlenuts]

So I(25m) banged this girl(28f) I met at the club last night and while we were having sex she asks me if it’s ok to use her vibrator and I said no because I didn’t like the idea of it. This is the first time a chick has asked me this and I didn’t know how to respond.

Then after she was like “why don’t you want me to use it” “I don’t think sex between us is going to work” blah blah blah. So I was thinking well ok **** use and agreed to let her use while I ****ed her.

I proceeded to creampie her while she was using the vibrator. The first time I couldn’t ***.

my questions are;

1) Is her wanting to use the vibrator a sign I’m bad in the sack?

2) Are the first couple times you have sex with a girl quite bad (generally)?

3) how would you guys respond to a girl using a vibrator while having sex? This is the first time this has happened to me

thanks in advance

 

[SargeMaximus]

I’ve had a few girls who wanted toys too. I always say no. They generally find a different guy. Suits me fine as I’m not into that

 

[EyeBRollin]

I have no issues with it. She’s using it because she overuses it in her free time and needs it to get off. Bust your own nut and stop worrying about hers.

 

[Bandolero]

1. No
2. No , but I see progress on both sides.
3. You should be happy buddy. This girl obviously
knows what she wants and needs in bed , now
it's on you to benefit from this freak .

 

[RickPound]

Depends on what her prospects are to you. ONS, FWB, or more, if it should bother you.

I had this recently. She pulled out her vibrator, and a weed vape, and used them at the same time. I just said “damn girl you need a lot of stimulation eh” and kept going.

I didn’t think to much of it other than what @EyeBRollin said. She’s fried her endorphins and needs a lot to get off. If she was more of a prospect that a ONS I might think about it more.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

fuq is wrong with you guys?

I used to keep one in my bedside stand just in case.

Bust it out and if she's one of those hard to jizz ladies she'll go crazy for you.

 

[Dazzlenuts]

I’ve had a few girls who wanted toys too. I always say no. They generally find a different guy. Suits me fine as I’m not into that

yeah I didn’t think I would be ethier but I was thinking “ah screw it” and the more times I rammed her like a sowing machine the less I actually cared.

 

[firstbornunicorn]

It should be OK with you.

Most women find it hard to come from penetration alone and need some stimulation on the ****oris, using a vibrator is an easy way to achieve that.

 

[Tilex]

You didn't say what type of vibrator it was.
Was it a cl!t vibrator?
Was it a dildo vibrator?

 

[Dazzlenuts]

I have no issues with it. She’s using it because she overuses it in her free time and needs it to get off. Bust your own nut and stop worrying about hers.

She did say afterwards that she came. I can’t really tell if a girl cums or not tbh. I hope that’s a good sign though

 

[Kotaix]

So I(25m) banged this girl(28f) I met at the club last night and while we were having sex she asks me if it’s ok to use her vibrator and I said no because I didn’t like the idea of it. This is the first time a chick has asked me this and I didn’t know how to respond.

Then after she was like “why don’t you want me to use it” “I don’t think sex between us is going to work” blah blah blah. So I was thinking well ok **** use and agreed to let her use while I ****ed her.

I proceeded to creampie her while she was using the vibrator. The first time I couldn’t ***.

my questions are;

1) Is her wanting to use the vibrator a sign I’m bad in the sack?

2) Are the first couple times you have sex with a girl quite bad (generally)?

3) how would you guys respond to a girl using a vibrator while having sex? This is the first time this has happened to me

thanks in advance

1. There are some women who can't have a vaginal orgasm easily or at all. It's wrong to think that this is a sign you're bad in the sack, she just wants to cvm. If it's a dealbreaker for you, then don't bang her again.

2. Depends on the girl. Some first times have been abysmal, others have been mindblowing. And sometimes the first time is great and the second time is meh.

3. It doesn't make a difference to me.

 

[derby1]

should have fisted her bro, and stopped messing about.

 

[Dazzlenuts]

You didn't say what type of vibrator it was.
Was it a cl!t vibrator?
Was it a dildo vibrator?

I believe it was a **** vibrator

 

[SargeMaximus]

yeah I didn’t think I would be ethier but I was thinking “ah screw it” and the more times I rammed her like a sowing machine the less I actually cared.

I can do that without toys

 

[HaleyBaron]

I got two different sized vibrators including a hand tie. Women love it and I like teasing with it. Win win far as Im concerned. If I didn't care for it, I wouldn't care. I especially like using it on innocent girls.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I had a chick use one with me before too...she liked getting herself off with it and then have me fvck her brains out afterwards..

What's the problem OP? This isn't weird, you just don't have sex with many chicks who are open sexually.

 

[Stuffnu]

Explains why some of you are on here. Get intimated too easily.
if a girl busts out the light saber, Fun it will be…

 

[f(x)]

I once had a short-term gf who invited me to go vibrator shopping with her one night.

We went to a sex shop and browsed the other items as well. It was a fun date.

She never used it during sex, but did during foreplay or sometimes after.

I thought it was kind of hot.

She was a great lay and let me have her any way I wanted for a while. The works.

After about the third time I put it in her azz she told me she likes butt plugs too.

This was before vapes, but she did have a bong she would use sometimes.

 

[Scars]

Some girls can't get off without a vibrator. One of my exes was like this. Couldn't get off from oral/vaginal stimulation. Don't take it personally. She still had sex with you.

If the idea of it still bothers you, get a vibrating c0ck ring. You can be inside her pvssy while still stimulating her cl!t with vibration. It also feels kinda good on your c0ck too.

 

[Dazzlenuts]

I had a chick use one with me before too...she liked getting herself off with it and then have me fvck her brains out afterwards..

What's the problem OP? This isn't weird, you just don't have sex with many chicks who are open sexually.

It’s just never happened to me before and I didn’t know what to think of it. And plus she was using it while we were having sex. So I thought it was maybe because I’m bad in the sack.