Girl pulls a complete 180 withing 24hrs.

[TheWolfMan]

I hear what you guys are saying, I should have just said f@ck it and went over when she invited me. Guess I'll learn from that mistake. Also like someone said she lives 50 mins. away and I had no idea where I was going, so I would have been an idiot not to confirm. The day after she bailed my buddy called me and said that his girl and the one I'm talking to were going to come over his house, the girl wanted to see me. He then gets back to me and says that my chick is hungover and doesn't feel like going now. So I hit her up and tried to get her over, she didn't budge so all I said was okay hope you feel better. Left it at that, and she gets back to me that she is going to bed for the night, and but she'll be around tomorrow...blah blah blah. I ended up going to my buddy's anyway , there was a bunch of us chillin and his girl was there, she asked if I've been talking to her friend and I said yeah and then I said she seems into it but I don't know, and she said that she thinks she is. Anyway, haven't heard from the girl since then, which is fine cuz i was unavailable last night anyway. You guys think I should persist a little more or just leave it up to her and wait for her to come at me?

 

[TheWolfMan]

I feel like my game prior to her flaking was bulletproof, like I was bringing my "A" game no joke. Then when she flaked I was like wtf tried not to let it get to me, but my game is faltering.

 

[Harry Wilmington]

Imma keep saying it and keep saying it until it starts to stick in your guys' heads:

When girls like you, they find every reason they can to be around you; when they don't, they find every excuse they can to not be around you.

Real life scenario: the girl I'm seeing now, her friend's mom passed away 2 days ago. She was supposed to go see her friend last night; however, that afternoon I suggested we meet up earlier in the afternoon to hang out before going over there. This chick ended up staying with me until the time passed when she was supposed to visit her friend - despite me telling her from time to time, "hey, shouldn't you be going to your friend's house now?"

So, why did she stay out with me vs. going to comfort her friend? HIGH INTEREST LEVEL. I was made priority over a friend's dead mom; meanwhile, the girl YOU'RE after can't even drive 50 minutes out of her way to see you, and is going every place BUT your house. LOW INTEREST LEVEL. Stop wasting your time, maaaaan!

 

[TheWolfMan]

Thanks HW, I fully agree. Like why the f@ck should i be putting in all the effort, if she really wanted to see me she would see me. Exactly my thoughts, like 50 mins. isn't that crazy of a drive.

 

[Harry Wilmington]

Dude, real talk: the girl I'm talking about lives an hour away from me. Yet, she spends her gas money and time to come see me at least 3 times a week, and occasionally pays for meals when we go out. Girls that like you are fine with this because they know they need to be putting in equal amount of work to see you - and they WANT to. If they're not, they're just not interested. Nothing to take personally, it's just how the game goes!