Gamisch
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- May 2, 2022
- Messages
- 5,285
- Reaction score
- 6,136
I wonder why you acting warm/ cold. Is this a reaction to how they behave or is this a "tactical move"?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Girl pulled back after awesome dates / She is not texting anymore
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
BackInTheGame78
Moderator
- Joined
- Sep 10, 2014
- Messages
- 16,865
- Reaction score
- 19,093
Essentially you thought the dates were awesome OP, her not so much.
Barrister
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Apr 28, 2018
- Messages
- 2,855
- Reaction score
- 5,075
- Age
- 40
These women typically are seeing multiple men at once just like you are seeing multiple women. She has a big board of interest just like you do. You just aren't at the top and she probably is with the guy who is. Don't get angry or over-analyze it. Just move on and keep seeing high interest women. You will be a happier man if you don't over-think this kind of stuff (as hard as it is at points).
BackInTheGame78
Moderator
- Joined
- Sep 10, 2014
- Messages
- 16,865
- Reaction score
- 19,093
Pretty much this...and just because you had sex with her at the end of each date doesn't qualify as a "great date" in her mind. She can literally have that anytime she wants.
Essentially a woman's criteria for a "great date" tends to be different from most men's where it mostly revolves around "did sex happen"?