girl probs-what should i do?

[kickureface]

here's the situation
we dated for a few months. she always liked this guy, they dated for a few months too but he lost interest. this was a year ago, and she never completely got over him. but when he got together with someone else she "seriously will try to get over him now"

then we started hanging out, and we were really hitting it off. i really never understood if she got over him. but they had some drama and got in a fight. good for me, ya know? but when the guy and his girl broke up, he kept saying he wanted a gf. i never really asked her out, as i was planning for her to initiate the "talk." hmmm...?

then when me n my girl were hanging out one time i guess i did a little too much kino cuz she got kinda freaked out and told me. then the old guy started makign a move on her, and she started to talk to me less and less and felt weird around me while she and the guy is beginning to rise in interest level.

so basically, what do i do now?
senior year is approaching. summer is here. what can i do to get her off my mind for now? and what can i do to reraise her interest level for later? and i was planning this summer to be better. like more organized, more responsible, more of everything, trying to change.
and this is terrible timing. i feel like crap. and i dont think i can focus for a while. i dunno what to do because i want to set myself straight and go for my goals for the summer.

thanks.

 

[kickureface]

anyone?

 

[WesCottII]

*sigh*

Dude, there's loads of women out there. Why get so hung up on this one? "spin some plates" as Rollo Tommasi'd say.

 

[WC2]

find new girls. if she really likes you then she'll initiate contact again, but don't let her get to you so easily.

 

[Maeisgood]

Pursuing a new girl will do three good things for you. 1) Help you get over her. 2) If this girl knows that other girls are after you, then it will make you more attractive to the one you want. 3) Success with another girl will make you more confident (attractive to the girl you want).

Another good bit of advice to is act like you don't care. I was told this by someone I'd consider a Don Juan.