"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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mvp21

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theres this girl i work with who at first i saw as a friend but now all the sudden we are constanly flirting an today she sarts tellin me about being a virgin an askin about sex so i need a way to see if she likes me w/o laying it all out there?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Morphiex

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well if ur flirting and such thats usually a good sign....

man just grab ur balls and ask her out on a date.... u already know eachother and **** just go to a movie or sumthing and enjoy life.... If she says no , then say oki and move on...

Speaking from experiance dont wait to long or shell loose interest...
 
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grab some ass.

literally.

extend ur hand and squeeze her ass. mighhttt not work so well for virgins so u might just wanna brush it with ur hand and make her wonder if it was an accident, but i've found this actually works pretty well. just after u grab it and she reacts (probably in shock) pretend nothing happened. "grabbed ur ass? huh? i think ur getting dellusional. do u need a ride home??" haha one of my favorites
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ahh yes. She is easy. Just go on the date and have fun. But she is interested so the job is already halfway through. I am not for sure how the emotional thought process of a virgin chick is but she could be bull****ting you. But I know a chick who first did it with her co-worker and then she felt bad because the dude stopped talking to her. Even after you bang her keep on tlaking to the chick so she knows that you genuinely like her.
 
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