theres this girl i work with who at first i saw as a friend but now all the sudden we are constanly flirting an today she sarts tellin me about being a virgin an askin about sex so i need a way to see if she likes me w/o laying it all out there?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.