"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yo wus up everybody,

Man it's been a long time since i've been on. theres this girl i've been talkin to for a while now. She alwayz actin like she's interested but then when get to doin sh*t together she's alwayz sayin silly sh*t that would lead me to believe other wise. like "Theres to many dudez in the world for me to be gettin serious wit just one." Now of course she never says ne of this to me directly. when ever she says somethin like that her friends are alwayz around. Man this girl is just fu<kin up my brain wavez right now. Can ya'll help a brother out.

I appretiate ne advice ya'll can give THANKS
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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its simple, I could run down the long list of what is going on in her head but it is useless. Just see other women and make sure she is aware of that fact, but not brag about it. because you dont need a girlfriend at such a young age anyway. let me know how it go's playa
 
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She says;
"Theres to many dudez in the world for me to be gettin serious wit just one."
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to herself.

Now you should be saying;
"Theres to many chicks in the world for me to be clingy to just one." to yourself.

Get yourself another. And then another. And after that, hell, why not another? Of course you may need help with this. But that's why we're here. :up:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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She doesn't want an exclusive relationship - treat it as such.
 
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Now you should be saying;
"Theres to many chicks in the world for me to be clingy to just one." to yourself.

or you should be saying;
" life is too short to dance with an ugly girl"
 
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