"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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G_Nice_06

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Yo wus up everybody,

Man it's been a long time since i've been on. theres this girl i've been talkin to for a while now. She alwayz actin like she's interested but then when get to doin sh*t together she's alwayz sayin silly sh*t that would lead me to believe other wise. like "Theres to many dudez in the world for me to be gettin serious wit just one." Now of course she never says ne of this to me directly. when ever she says somethin like that her friends are alwayz around. Man this girl is just fu<kin up my brain wavez right now. Can ya'll help a brother out.

I appretiate ne advice ya'll can give THANKS
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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its simple, I could run down the long list of what is going on in her head but it is useless. Just see other women and make sure she is aware of that fact, but not brag about it. because you dont need a girlfriend at such a young age anyway. let me know how it go's playa
 
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She says;
"Theres to many dudez in the world for me to be gettin serious wit just one."
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to herself.

Now you should be saying;
"Theres to many chicks in the world for me to be clingy to just one." to yourself.

Get yourself another. And then another. And after that, hell, why not another? Of course you may need help with this. But that's why we're here. :up:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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She doesn't want an exclusive relationship - treat it as such.
 
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Now you should be saying;
"Theres to many chicks in the world for me to be clingy to just one." to yourself.

or you should be saying;
" life is too short to dance with an ugly girl"
 
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