Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Impossible. You won't get most girls you want. It's a fact. Can you get a sh1tload of girls that you desire? Absolutely. A good looking guy has an advantage over a less good looking in terms of that girl, but if he's a little bit sharper, he can outdo him.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
It's all about your attitude, mindset, and dominance. But at the end of the day, if the girl doesn't even give you a CHANCE to show any of these traits then it's game over. Good looking guys get chances, ugly guys usually don't. On top of that the whole time she is going to keep wondering and rationalizing why she likes an ugly guy. In her mind she knows he is ugly, but her heart is telling her different. The ugly guy is going to have to be on top of his game 24/7, he can't afford to slip up; while the same girl would be A LOT more forgiving with a good looking guy. It's the sad truth.Heyjose25points said:
It's not that simple. I've gotten an unbelievable amount of attention from hot chicks based on my looks, but I admit that I've been too AFC to approach. And surprise, surprise, nothing ever happens. I've run into a few girls who have had the confidence to be forthright in going after me, but the vast majority are waiting for a guy who's willing to take the initiative.Falcon25 said:
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.