You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Impossible. You won't get most girls you want. It's a fact. Can you get a sh1tload of girls that you desire? Absolutely. A good looking guy has an advantage over a less good looking in terms of that girl, but if he's a little bit sharper, he can outdo him.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
It's all about your attitude, mindset, and dominance. But at the end of the day, if the girl doesn't even give you a CHANCE to show any of these traits then it's game over. Good looking guys get chances, ugly guys usually don't. On top of that the whole time she is going to keep wondering and rationalizing why she likes an ugly guy. In her mind she knows he is ugly, but her heart is telling her different. The ugly guy is going to have to be on top of his game 24/7, he can't afford to slip up; while the same girl would be A LOT more forgiving with a good looking guy. It's the sad truth.Heyjose25points said:
It's not that simple. I've gotten an unbelievable amount of attention from hot chicks based on my looks, but I admit that I've been too AFC to approach. And surprise, surprise, nothing ever happens. I've run into a few girls who have had the confidence to be forthright in going after me, but the vast majority are waiting for a guy who's willing to take the initiative.Falcon25 said:
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.