"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Girl posts private video to YouTube

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so im randomly googling this One girl I'm seeing and it brings up a private video I sent her of me eating a banana rather disgustingly. She's added some sexy music in the background.

I laughed my head off when I watched it but seriously felt this a betrayal of trust and told her 1) she's dumped and 2) if she doesn't take it down I'll be sending the private videos I have of her to YouTube and anyone else who knows her.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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:-) said:
so im randomly googling this One girl I'm seeing and it brings up a private video I sent her of me eating a banana rather disgustingly. She's added some sexy music in the background.

I laughed my head off when I watched it but seriously felt this a betrayal of trust and told her 1) she's dumped and 2) if she doesn't take it down I'll be sending the private videos I have of her to YouTube and anyone else who knows her.
Nice work. Chicks sometimes think they get away with whatever they want just because they're chicks.

Rory Mcilroy dumped a girl just because she posted a pic of him sleeping to twitter.
 

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She spent the last two hours claiming there are loads of naked pictures of her on the web and accusing me of doing it before threatening to go to the police Each time I asked her to send me the link of the website they are on she refused to do so. She eventually admitted doing it after I gave her radio silence. She claimed she did it 'accidentally'. Lol. Oh well. Luckily I have a few others on rotation otherwise I might have been bothered.
 

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Suspens said:
Go ahead with your second idea.
I gave her 24 hours to take it down. If the vid is still there after that time I shall be sending them to her ex who owns the flat she rents from and who is still in love with her. Poor fool.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This is going to be so sweet. Keep us updated man.
 

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2) if she doesn't take it down I'll be sending the private videos I have of her to YouTube and anyone else who knows her.
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She spent the last two hours claiming there are loads of naked pictures of her on the web and accusing me of doing it before threatening to go to the police
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If the vid is still there after that time I shall be sending them to her ex who owns the flat she rents from and who is still in love with her. Poor fool.
In my OP I wasn't sure how serious you were in regards to actually posting her nudes to the internet. You're getting into some strange territory here - legally/morally/ethically. Personally, I'm not a fan of ANYONE posting any personal/private information/pics to the internet without that persons permission. Although she may deserve it, it doesn't necessarily mean you should go ahead and do it. She may be that type of person to do something like that, but that doesn't mean YOU have to be the type of person to do something like that. There are other ways to get back at her and-or to get her to remove what she's already posted.

Just something to think about.
 

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it brings up a private video of me eating a banana rather disgustingly. She's added some sexy music in the background.
How appeeling.

This bothers you why?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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After reading this again, don't seem too bothered by it. It comes off as kind of *****y (No Offence). Just let what happens happen, tell her it's stupid and you don't like it but don't dwell.
 

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DragonBlood said:
How appeeling.

This bothers you why?
It didn't put me in the most flattering light.

Anyhow turns out she had edited via the youtube app and posted it without her knowledge. Everything is sorted now.
 

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Great. Can't understand her defensive behavior though.
 
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