Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Girl posts private video to YouTube

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so im randomly googling this One girl I'm seeing and it brings up a private video I sent her of me eating a banana rather disgustingly. She's added some sexy music in the background.

I laughed my head off when I watched it but seriously felt this a betrayal of trust and told her 1) she's dumped and 2) if she doesn't take it down I'll be sending the private videos I have of her to YouTube and anyone else who knows her.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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so im randomly googling this One girl I'm seeing and it brings up a private video I sent her of me eating a banana rather disgustingly. She's added some sexy music in the background.

I laughed my head off when I watched it but seriously felt this a betrayal of trust and told her 1) she's dumped and 2) if she doesn't take it down I'll be sending the private videos I have of her to YouTube and anyone else who knows her.
Nice work. Chicks sometimes think they get away with whatever they want just because they're chicks.

Rory Mcilroy dumped a girl just because she posted a pic of him sleeping to twitter.
 

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She spent the last two hours claiming there are loads of naked pictures of her on the web and accusing me of doing it before threatening to go to the police Each time I asked her to send me the link of the website they are on she refused to do so. She eventually admitted doing it after I gave her radio silence. She claimed she did it 'accidentally'. Lol. Oh well. Luckily I have a few others on rotation otherwise I might have been bothered.
 

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Suspens said:
Go ahead with your second idea.
I gave her 24 hours to take it down. If the vid is still there after that time I shall be sending them to her ex who owns the flat she rents from and who is still in love with her. Poor fool.
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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This is going to be so sweet. Keep us updated man.
 

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2) if she doesn't take it down I'll be sending the private videos I have of her to YouTube and anyone else who knows her.
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She spent the last two hours claiming there are loads of naked pictures of her on the web and accusing me of doing it before threatening to go to the police
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If the vid is still there after that time I shall be sending them to her ex who owns the flat she rents from and who is still in love with her. Poor fool.
In my OP I wasn't sure how serious you were in regards to actually posting her nudes to the internet. You're getting into some strange territory here - legally/morally/ethically. Personally, I'm not a fan of ANYONE posting any personal/private information/pics to the internet without that persons permission. Although she may deserve it, it doesn't necessarily mean you should go ahead and do it. She may be that type of person to do something like that, but that doesn't mean YOU have to be the type of person to do something like that. There are other ways to get back at her and-or to get her to remove what she's already posted.

Just something to think about.
 

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it brings up a private video of me eating a banana rather disgustingly. She's added some sexy music in the background.
How appeeling.

This bothers you why?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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After reading this again, don't seem too bothered by it. It comes off as kind of *****y (No Offence). Just let what happens happen, tell her it's stupid and you don't like it but don't dwell.
 

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DragonBlood said:
How appeeling.

This bothers you why?
It didn't put me in the most flattering light.

Anyhow turns out she had edited via the youtube app and posted it without her knowledge. Everything is sorted now.
 

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Great. Can't understand her defensive behavior though.
 
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