"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Girl pokes tongue out at you

PeterCrouch

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Sign of attraction?
How do you respond?

Twice tonight at work a girl poked her tongue out at me, I just pulled a stupid face, which I know was stupid. Anyway, we were far away from each other so saying something was out of the question so how should I respond to it if it happens tomorrow?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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bish0p

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heh, I used to do that to random girls while driving.
 

Cinamon

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Next time she does it, say i can put my tongue to better use than that, smile with a wink and walk away ;)
 
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