Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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girl playing hard to get

Robopimp

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hello everybody
first post here goes,
there's this girl probably a 9 or so who caught my eye but i got no idea on where to go. i met her at a party that my one of my moms friends threw. i hung out with her and an AFC(i got the slang down) friend that i have who goes to the same small private school as her. i made a lame ass first impression but i sort of made up for it after we( me my friend, her, her sister, and some other girl) got some,uh,drinks,and she started grilling me abouth sexual exploits.at another partythrown by the same people a little while later i loosened up and got it crackin' with some neg hits and such.. and she has this whole prima donna/***** thing, she gave me a really disdainful look at the begginning of the second party, that i took in stride and actually spun in my favor, i've always been good at being funny and cool but never good at showing attraction in charming ways there will be another mutual party soon, and it might be my last chance at a number, how should i do things?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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SinJester

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'Here *hands her the phone* give me your number'

That simple. If you want to show attraction just slowly esculate physically.

You can try using push/pull. Basically it's like a complement followed by a very small insult or expression of disinterest. You should also push when she does something you don't like, direspects you or shows disinterest. Pull when she does something you like or esculates slighty. Some examples:

"Hey your cute, it's too bad your not my type"
"Your almost cute enough to get away with that... almost"
"Oh you really like doing that thing? That's awesome we have so much in common. It's too bad your such a dork ;)"

It all has to come from a place of being playfull.
 
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