"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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girl playing hard to get

Robopimp

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hello everybody
first post here goes,
there's this girl probably a 9 or so who caught my eye but i got no idea on where to go. i met her at a party that my one of my moms friends threw. i hung out with her and an AFC(i got the slang down) friend that i have who goes to the same small private school as her. i made a lame ass first impression but i sort of made up for it after we( me my friend, her, her sister, and some other girl) got some,uh,drinks,and she started grilling me abouth sexual exploits.at another partythrown by the same people a little while later i loosened up and got it crackin' with some neg hits and such.. and she has this whole prima donna/***** thing, she gave me a really disdainful look at the begginning of the second party, that i took in stride and actually spun in my favor, i've always been good at being funny and cool but never good at showing attraction in charming ways there will be another mutual party soon, and it might be my last chance at a number, how should i do things?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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SinJester

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'Here *hands her the phone* give me your number'

That simple. If you want to show attraction just slowly esculate physically.

You can try using push/pull. Basically it's like a complement followed by a very small insult or expression of disinterest. You should also push when she does something you don't like, direspects you or shows disinterest. Pull when she does something you like or esculates slighty. Some examples:

"Hey your cute, it's too bad your not my type"
"Your almost cute enough to get away with that... almost"
"Oh you really like doing that thing? That's awesome we have so much in common. It's too bad your such a dork ;)"

It all has to come from a place of being playfull.
 
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