"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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girl playing hard to get

Robopimp

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hello everybody
first post here goes,
there's this girl probably a 9 or so who caught my eye but i got no idea on where to go. i met her at a party that my one of my moms friends threw. i hung out with her and an AFC(i got the slang down) friend that i have who goes to the same small private school as her. i made a lame ass first impression but i sort of made up for it after we( me my friend, her, her sister, and some other girl) got some,uh,drinks,and she started grilling me abouth sexual exploits.at another partythrown by the same people a little while later i loosened up and got it crackin' with some neg hits and such.. and she has this whole prima donna/***** thing, she gave me a really disdainful look at the begginning of the second party, that i took in stride and actually spun in my favor, i've always been good at being funny and cool but never good at showing attraction in charming ways there will be another mutual party soon, and it might be my last chance at a number, how should i do things?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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SinJester

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'Here *hands her the phone* give me your number'

That simple. If you want to show attraction just slowly esculate physically.

You can try using push/pull. Basically it's like a complement followed by a very small insult or expression of disinterest. You should also push when she does something you don't like, direspects you or shows disinterest. Pull when she does something you like or esculates slighty. Some examples:

"Hey your cute, it's too bad your not my type"
"Your almost cute enough to get away with that... almost"
"Oh you really like doing that thing? That's awesome we have so much in common. It's too bad your such a dork ;)"

It all has to come from a place of being playfull.
 
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