"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Girl Pissing Me Off

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Hey, so I have this female friend. I don't want to get with her or anything, we are just good friends, but lately she's gotten SO DAMN annoying.

I guess it's my fault cuz I listened to her problems in the past and tried to help her, for example, she struggled a lot with school and I wanted to help her as a good university peer.

But now, whenever I just talk to her about anything it always comes down to her telling me how ****ty her marks are, and then other stuff that before as a friend I could listen to seldomly, but now it's just annoying and a habit.

I'm currently just trying the move of walking away when she acts all annoying and ****, but what suggestions do you guys have?

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Don't post **** like "You pulled an AFC" move blah blah, yeah I wasn't trying to get her, and I didn't know helping someone out with something like school would lead to this. So skip the degrading talk and just post advice/constructive criticism, if you have nothing good to say, don't post it.

Also, it's hard to ignore her completely because we hangout a lot together in the same group and go clubbing together..
ALL I WANT is for her to stop being so annoying.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Tell her complaining is unnecessary resistance to the problem and she has become a victim of it. She can do 3 things drop it as in forget it's a problem, change the situation or make changes as in study, or accept the reality of the problem as it is so it won't bother her as much. I got this method from this book power of now. Anyways not to be cruel or anything but seeing as she is a girl, it's hard for her to do those things I mentioned cause complaining has now become an innate trait with women always b1ytching. It's either that or you tell her directly you don't give a flu about her problems.
 
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Thank you. Yes, it's become such a habit for this one girl. Thanks for sharing your insight. I gave sound advice before, I just want to stop hearing it now. :)
 
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