Girl Pissing Me Off

[Noobie]

Hey, so I have this female friend. I don't want to get with her or anything, we are just good friends, but lately she's gotten SO DAMN annoying.

I guess it's my fault cuz I listened to her problems in the past and tried to help her, for example, she struggled a lot with school and I wanted to help her as a good university peer.

But now, whenever I just talk to her about anything it always comes down to her telling me how ****ty her marks are, and then other stuff that before as a friend I could listen to seldomly, but now it's just annoying and a habit.

I'm currently just trying the move of walking away when she acts all annoying and ****, but what suggestions do you guys have?

Note:
Don't post **** like "You pulled an AFC" move blah blah, yeah I wasn't trying to get her, and I didn't know helping someone out with something like school would lead to this. So skip the degrading talk and just post advice/constructive criticism, if you have nothing good to say, don't post it.

Also, it's hard to ignore her completely because we hangout a lot together in the same group and go clubbing together..
ALL I WANT is for her to stop being so annoying.

 

[1337]

Tell her complaining is unnecessary resistance to the problem and she has become a victim of it. She can do 3 things drop it as in forget it's a problem, change the situation or make changes as in study, or accept the reality of the problem as it is so it won't bother her as much. I got this method from this book power of now. Anyways not to be cruel or anything but seeing as she is a girl, it's hard for her to do those things I mentioned cause complaining has now become an innate trait with women always b1ytching. It's either that or you tell her directly you don't give a flu about her problems.

 

[Noobie]

Thank you. Yes, it's become such a habit for this one girl. Thanks for sharing your insight. I gave sound advice before, I just want to stop hearing it now.