"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girl online asking me to add her on facebook

Dust 2 Dust

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I don't have a Facebook account so her request would be out of the question for me.

Guy: "Give me your number".
Girl: "Look me up on Facebook"=The new rejection.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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While the above is true, simply asking for her last name to look her up is an appropriate question if you've just met, have chemistry, but one of you has to go. Then if you email them on FB (do not friend request) and they write back they might offer their cell number and then you can text them.
 

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Just replied to her ,


Hello,


For now i prefer not to give away my FB, can i please have your phone number?

That's it.
 

zorg198

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Till now , no response from her. and i dont think she will respond.

well- its her loss...
 

zorg198

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Ohhhhh what a surprise ,

i replied to her this morning :

?For now i prefer not to give my FB account , can please i have your number

she replied:

Yeah, that makes sense. my number is xxxxxxxxx
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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zorg198

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Hello,

Yesterday i went with this girl on a date , it was great- was 4 hours.

what should i do now?
 

Who Dares Win

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zorg198 said:
Hello,

Yesterday i went with this girl on a date , it was great- was 4 hours.

what should i do now?
Any kino,kiss did u escalate or managed to get something?
 

zorg198

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when we were walking i hugged her and she also put her hand around me , in the end of the date i kissed her on the lips.
 

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These b!tches on Facebook = attention hoes, I really waste time there whenever I go there. Very few put out, for me, at least. Just got flat rejected after a month of grooming her. They change their minds once their friends list grows and grows. I can't keep up. A woman's silly "friends" just keeps growing and growing and growing double (even triple) the rate mine has, without much effort on her part.
 

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Poonani Maker said:
These b!tches on Facebook = attention hoes, I really waste time there whenever I go there. Very few put out, for me, at least. Just got flat rejected after a month of grooming her. They change their minds once their friends list grows and grows. I can't keep up. A woman's silly "friends" just keeps growing and growing and growing double (even triple) the rate mine has, without much effort on her part.


Hey ,

That's why i didn't gave her my FB , she gave me her number anyway...

we went out to a date yesterday and it was great , Kino and all...

now , how long should i wait till the next date? 3 , 4 days then contact her?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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zorg198

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Hey guys,
Since Thursday i didn't talk with her , should i call her ?
 

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^wait till monday...otherwise she will think you are free on the weekend and have no life....patience is the key when making a nice kebab,you marinate the meat for a couple of days THEN you grill it...same thing for girls
meanwhile keep looking for other "conquests"...
 

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I keep log in to JDATE and looking for other girls , its irony but since i dated this chick i got messages from other girls ....
 

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Good job dude. You must continue. Women love to see you with other women, and to see you treat them like sh!t. I fvcke them over routinely, they tell their friends, then when I get around one who starts off negative just totally hateful towards me cause of things she's heard, we're alone now, and she sees that I'm not really like that way, and bam she's interested. But I only give her maybe 5 mins of my nice side, then I'll leave. Then she will fvck me when no one's noticing.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Good for you. P.S. F&ck Facebook and Zuckerberg.
 

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Well,

Just finished my second date with her, went really good- 4 hours.

we walked hugging each other and talking blah blah blah... in the end of the date i walked her to her door and kissed her for a while.

Felt good :)
 

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What you guys to do on a third date?

I was the one who paid this time again on the date , i don't care to tell the truth.
she works very hard for penis so its OK

Do you guys have any good ideas for a third date? restaurant and movie are ok but they are boring like hell.

Something exciting will be good..
 

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72 hour rule fool.

Third date should be at your crib or her crib. It's time to seal the deal.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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