"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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today was i was comming home from uni this hottie sat down next to me. I was kinda nervous as i dont do pickups and stuff but i thought screw it so i was thinking of a way to start a convo but i couldnt think of any lol and it was past that 3 second rule thing

so were both listening to music and i put mine away and i get out my train ticket and i realise that it expired the other day, so im like "hey do u know the date today" she told me it and i make a joke about how my ticket expired and i would have to fare evade today, then she put her music away and we talked for the rest of the trip. It was really nice cause afterwards u do get that really good feeling, like the confidence starts to build

she was only 16, im 19 so i didnt go for her number but it was still an experience talking to a chick that was a stranger, too bad she wasnt older, she was really nice and hottie :p

meh just felt i would post this
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You: "hey, do you know the date today?"

Her: "It's March 7"

You: "Wrong! It's you and me at 7:00 for dinner."

Someone I know came up with this line today. I thought it was funny. Anyway, good job taking the initiative. It only gets easier from here.
 

MrHarris

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I was kinda nervous as i dont do pickups and stuff

Why are you here if you don't do pickups?????

And if your a master vampire then nothing as mundane as a petty ego, being scared of something as minor in life as opening to a girl. In fact it shouldn't even phase you.

You should be revealing in your powers and abilities to cloud the minds of young ladies and enthrall them to you.
 

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Originally posted by MrHarris


You should be revealing in your powers and abilities to cloud the minds of young ladies and enthrall them to you.


I just love this guy!!!

Game is the ability to use words to invoke a calculated emotional response from others while being totally immune yourself.
 

DeathDealer

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Mmm, 16 year olds girls. You should've gotten her number and hit that.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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