girl on tinder messaged me and asks one question

[sosousage]

over and over.

she asks what i look for on tinder


I ALWAYS say that "im looking for someone cool and then we will see what happens later".


then she asked again what i need this person for.

then asked if I just want to have fun.


Is this a trap and she wants relationship and if i say sex i lose? Or she wants to fukkk
what i answer for this question?

btw shes pretentious already. "you dont give direct answers" "we dont click"

 

[logicallefty]

I have had this card thrown at me from online chicks several times and handled it kinda similar as you. Sample:

HB: What are you looking for?
LL: Going with the flow to see what happens
HB: You must be one here for one reason or another?
LL: Yes, to meet and see how it goes. I don't see a reason to establish any hard and fast parameters with who I chat with here so early on. If that's what you require then I respect that but at the same time you would not be a good fit for me.
HB: No no no, I was just curious.

 

[greatsnake]

keep it as vague as possible

 

[marmel75]

I always used to say "I am not looking for anything but I'm open to everything with the right person".

Most seemed to like that answer

 

[Trump]

over and over.

she asks what i look for on tinder


I ALWAYS say that "im looking for someone cool and then we will see what happens later".


then she asked again what i need this person for.

then asked if I just want to have fun.

Any question that’s open to interpretation is a trap question.

“What are you looking for on Tinder?”
“Open to everything.”
Girl thinks: “You are not serious. Next!”

“What are you looking for on Tinder?”
“Love and sex.”
Girl thinks: “What a jerk. Next!”


Personally I would throw it back at her.

“What are you looking for on Tinder?”
“The same thing you are looking for.”

 

[The Duke]

Here's what I told a Tinder match the other day:

TinderGirl: What are you looking for on here?
Howiestern: Someone that is above average in all the categories that matter. And if that turns into something long term, then great.
TinderGirl: Awesome!!!

Craft your message well enough that it doesn't shut any doors for you.

 

[Spidah]

keep it as vague as possible

For real.

Bitches like this are manipulators. They try to get in your head so they can use that info to get what they want. Never let bitches know your motivations or what makes you tick.

You'll never find a bytch who is honest with you. Guarantee it.

 

[greatsnake]

For real.

Bitches like this are manipulators. They try to get in your head so they can use that info to get what they want. Never let bitches know your motivations or what makes you tick.

You'll never find a bytch who is honest with you. Guarantee it.

You touched up on a bigger issue.

 

[Macaframalama]

Tell her what you want. Can't think of another thing more unattractive to a woman, than a man appearing to not know what he wants. They are not stupid. They know exactly what you want already.