"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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girl on facebook lives near me...

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so i saw this girl on my friends list and added her, she's not bad looking, she lives 5 minutes from me pretty much. we spoke very little.. she didn't seem to responsive when i was tryin to talk. she seems to use facebook quite a bit cause she's posting stuff on her wall. she hasn't made an effort to say hi or nothing... so i'm about to send her a message and leave it at that.

something like this:

hey, we didn't get a chance to talk.. how about we get to know each other a lil since we are neighbors :p

tell me bout yaself, how long you been in <city> for? how old are you? what do you do with yourself? what are your hobbies?

i see you're a gamer, like myself... that's a bonus! it's hard to come by a girl gamer these days, heh.

well, we shall chat soon.

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what do you guys think? at least i'm tryin to talk to her.. if she doesn't reply well.. i'm going to leave it at that. she lives right near me, might aswell try eh? *plus it says she's single, so why not!* :p
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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meet girls in person not over the internet. if you've never met her she will think it's creepy
 
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Lol, did you come here for a pep talk? Do it man! What's with all the asking of approval? Chat her up and see what happens, if she's uninterested, move on.
 
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whats so creepy about getting to know someone? sheesh. i just wanted to know who someone is that is on my friends list instead of being a stranger :p


yea i did it.. guess i just wanted to see some opinions.
 
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Facebook approaches are ridiculous. Why would someone even befriend someone else they have never even met? Sounds bizarre to me.

Your message asks a lot of questions that could take quite a bit of effort to answer well. Given that shes never met you before, don't expect her to go to that effort. I'd be very suprised if she replies.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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and there's a good chance you'll embarrass your friend if she can figure out that that's how you found her
 
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Tesl said:
Facebook approaches are ridiculous. Why would someone even befriend someone else they have never even met? Sounds bizarre to me.

Your message asks a lot of questions that could take quite a bit of effort to answer well. Given that shes never met you before, don't expect her to go to that effort. I'd be very suprised if she replies.
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bizarre? what the hell.. you guys over react to silly things. tell me what is so bizarre about asking someone online some simple questions? if anyone thinks that's creepy or ... bizarre, they're the weird ones not me. yeah i don't know her, but is there really any difference to doing it online and offline? you walk up to a girl you don't know in a bar or whatever and ask her the same questions. same thing man.

LOL @ bizarre. chill out brah.
 
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