"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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girl on facebook lives near me...

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so i saw this girl on my friends list and added her, she's not bad looking, she lives 5 minutes from me pretty much. we spoke very little.. she didn't seem to responsive when i was tryin to talk. she seems to use facebook quite a bit cause she's posting stuff on her wall. she hasn't made an effort to say hi or nothing... so i'm about to send her a message and leave it at that.

something like this:

hey, we didn't get a chance to talk.. how about we get to know each other a lil since we are neighbors :p

tell me bout yaself, how long you been in <city> for? how old are you? what do you do with yourself? what are your hobbies?

i see you're a gamer, like myself... that's a bonus! it's hard to come by a girl gamer these days, heh.

well, we shall chat soon.

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what do you guys think? at least i'm tryin to talk to her.. if she doesn't reply well.. i'm going to leave it at that. she lives right near me, might aswell try eh? *plus it says she's single, so why not!* :p
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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meet girls in person not over the internet. if you've never met her she will think it's creepy
 
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Lol, did you come here for a pep talk? Do it man! What's with all the asking of approval? Chat her up and see what happens, if she's uninterested, move on.
 
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whats so creepy about getting to know someone? sheesh. i just wanted to know who someone is that is on my friends list instead of being a stranger :p


yea i did it.. guess i just wanted to see some opinions.
 
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Facebook approaches are ridiculous. Why would someone even befriend someone else they have never even met? Sounds bizarre to me.

Your message asks a lot of questions that could take quite a bit of effort to answer well. Given that shes never met you before, don't expect her to go to that effort. I'd be very suprised if she replies.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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and there's a good chance you'll embarrass your friend if she can figure out that that's how you found her
 
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Tesl said:
Facebook approaches are ridiculous. Why would someone even befriend someone else they have never even met? Sounds bizarre to me.

Your message asks a lot of questions that could take quite a bit of effort to answer well. Given that shes never met you before, don't expect her to go to that effort. I'd be very suprised if she replies.
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bizarre? what the hell.. you guys over react to silly things. tell me what is so bizarre about asking someone online some simple questions? if anyone thinks that's creepy or ... bizarre, they're the weird ones not me. yeah i don't know her, but is there really any difference to doing it online and offline? you walk up to a girl you don't know in a bar or whatever and ask her the same questions. same thing man.

LOL @ bizarre. chill out brah.
 
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