"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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girl on facebook lives near me...

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so i saw this girl on my friends list and added her, she's not bad looking, she lives 5 minutes from me pretty much. we spoke very little.. she didn't seem to responsive when i was tryin to talk. she seems to use facebook quite a bit cause she's posting stuff on her wall. she hasn't made an effort to say hi or nothing... so i'm about to send her a message and leave it at that.

something like this:

hey, we didn't get a chance to talk.. how about we get to know each other a lil since we are neighbors :p

tell me bout yaself, how long you been in <city> for? how old are you? what do you do with yourself? what are your hobbies?

i see you're a gamer, like myself... that's a bonus! it's hard to come by a girl gamer these days, heh.

well, we shall chat soon.

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what do you guys think? at least i'm tryin to talk to her.. if she doesn't reply well.. i'm going to leave it at that. she lives right near me, might aswell try eh? *plus it says she's single, so why not!* :p
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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meet girls in person not over the internet. if you've never met her she will think it's creepy
 
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Lol, did you come here for a pep talk? Do it man! What's with all the asking of approval? Chat her up and see what happens, if she's uninterested, move on.
 
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whats so creepy about getting to know someone? sheesh. i just wanted to know who someone is that is on my friends list instead of being a stranger :p


yea i did it.. guess i just wanted to see some opinions.
 
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Facebook approaches are ridiculous. Why would someone even befriend someone else they have never even met? Sounds bizarre to me.

Your message asks a lot of questions that could take quite a bit of effort to answer well. Given that shes never met you before, don't expect her to go to that effort. I'd be very suprised if she replies.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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and there's a good chance you'll embarrass your friend if she can figure out that that's how you found her
 
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Tesl said:
Facebook approaches are ridiculous. Why would someone even befriend someone else they have never even met? Sounds bizarre to me.

Your message asks a lot of questions that could take quite a bit of effort to answer well. Given that shes never met you before, don't expect her to go to that effort. I'd be very suprised if she replies.
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bizarre? what the hell.. you guys over react to silly things. tell me what is so bizarre about asking someone online some simple questions? if anyone thinks that's creepy or ... bizarre, they're the weird ones not me. yeah i don't know her, but is there really any difference to doing it online and offline? you walk up to a girl you don't know in a bar or whatever and ask her the same questions. same thing man.

LOL @ bizarre. chill out brah.
 
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