"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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girl on dating/meeting site msged me with a compliment

TT2CiN

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ok so I get this msg from this hb7 and she goes

"you have nice eyes... damn"

I just want to fvck this girl. so my question is, where do I go from there do I try to be ****y/funny since she basically showed her interest or do I try for aggressive and just talk a lil and then go for # or meet right away? not sure how this internet thing works. if u were me how would u reply back.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"Glad you noticed, you should see them in person..."

C'mon, make an effort!
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
"Glad you noticed, you should see them in person..."

C'mon, make an effort!
Lol I wrote exactly that and then she wrote back

"I should : )" so I wrote "ok come over and entertain me then". and she doesn't respond lol. and yes she read it. maybe it was too late? it was at like 11pm or so. anyway to salvage this?
 

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TT2CiN said:
Lol I wrote exactly that and then she wrote back

"I should : )" so I wrote "ok come over and entertain me then". and she doesn't respond lol. and yes she read it. maybe it was too late? it was at like 11pm or so. anyway to salvage this?
Ohhh damn... You went from ****y/funny to JAJ (just another jerk) status :kick:. Why didn't you just set up a realistic meeting???!!! Next time avoid the sexual undertones until you meet and establish that the two of you have mutual chemistry and attraction. The only way to pull this out of the fire is with an very attractive personality. If you can't pull her back readily, just chalk this one up to experience; a very hard lesson learned.
 

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instant messages are so gay, the only reply I would of gave that is "what is your number and can I call NOW?...and I would ignore any reply that didn't include her number. work on polishing your social skills in the public
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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