"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ok so I get this msg from this hb7 and she goes

"you have nice eyes... damn"

I just want to fvck this girl. so my question is, where do I go from there do I try to be ****y/funny since she basically showed her interest or do I try for aggressive and just talk a lil and then go for # or meet right away? not sure how this internet thing works. if u were me how would u reply back.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"Glad you noticed, you should see them in person..."

C'mon, make an effort!
 
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Francisco d'Anconia said:
"Glad you noticed, you should see them in person..."

C'mon, make an effort!
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Lol I wrote exactly that and then she wrote back

"I should : )" so I wrote "ok come over and entertain me then". and she doesn't respond lol. and yes she read it. maybe it was too late? it was at like 11pm or so. anyway to salvage this?
 
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Lol I wrote exactly that and then she wrote back

"I should : )" so I wrote "ok come over and entertain me then". and she doesn't respond lol. and yes she read it. maybe it was too late? it was at like 11pm or so. anyway to salvage this?
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Ohhh damn... You went from ****y/funny to JAJ (just another jerk) status :kick:. Why didn't you just set up a realistic meeting???!!! Next time avoid the sexual undertones until you meet and establish that the two of you have mutual chemistry and attraction. The only way to pull this out of the fire is with an very attractive personality. If you can't pull her back readily, just chalk this one up to experience; a very hard lesson learned.
 
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instant messages are so gay, the only reply I would of gave that is "what is your number and can I call NOW?...and I would ignore any reply that didn't include her number. work on polishing your social skills in the public
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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