"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

girl on dating/meeting site msged me with a compliment

T

TT2CiN

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 6, 2007
Messages
25
Reaction score
0
ok so I get this msg from this hb7 and she goes

"you have nice eyes... damn"

I just want to fvck this girl. so my question is, where do I go from there do I try to be ****y/funny since she basically showed her interest or do I try for aggressive and just talk a lil and then go for # or meet right away? not sure how this internet thing works. if u were me how would u reply back.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

F

Francisco d'Anconia

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 10, 2003
Messages
15,481
Reaction score
65
Location
Galt's Gulch
"Glad you noticed, you should see them in person..."

C'mon, make an effort!
 
T

TT2CiN

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 6, 2007
Messages
25
Reaction score
0
Francisco d'Anconia said:
"Glad you noticed, you should see them in person..."

C'mon, make an effort!
Click to expand...
Lol I wrote exactly that and then she wrote back

"I should : )" so I wrote "ok come over and entertain me then". and she doesn't respond lol. and yes she read it. maybe it was too late? it was at like 11pm or so. anyway to salvage this?
 
F

Francisco d'Anconia

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 10, 2003
Messages
15,481
Reaction score
65
Location
Galt's Gulch
TT2CiN said:
Lol I wrote exactly that and then she wrote back

"I should : )" so I wrote "ok come over and entertain me then". and she doesn't respond lol. and yes she read it. maybe it was too late? it was at like 11pm or so. anyway to salvage this?
Click to expand...
Ohhh damn... You went from ****y/funny to JAJ (just another jerk) status :kick:. Why didn't you just set up a realistic meeting???!!! Next time avoid the sexual undertones until you meet and establish that the two of you have mutual chemistry and attraction. The only way to pull this out of the fire is with an very attractive personality. If you can't pull her back readily, just chalk this one up to experience; a very hard lesson learned.
 
S

skirtChaser

Banned
Joined
Oct 12, 2007
Messages
224
Reaction score
1
instant messages are so gay, the only reply I would of gave that is "what is your number and can I call NOW?...and I would ignore any reply that didn't include her number. work on polishing your social skills in the public
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top