Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Girl on bus felt me up. I grabbed her breast. I have a gf.

tony-montana

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Okay. Firstly, I have a gf who I met while she was visiting my country (for a year) we would meet up every weekend (Sat and Sun) and she started sleeping over too. So we became a couple. Eventually she stayed at my house for a month and then she had to go back to her country. I went with her for a vacation. It's been 6 months now we haven't seen each other. We talk every single day on the phone and text. She's in love with me. We are a long distance couple until I propose to her I guess. Then she can move to my country. Now I'm a very sexual person. I catch public transport everyday to work and I'm surrounded by tits and ass every day all day. It drives me crazy. So...

It happened this morning and now I feel weird about it.

I caught the bus as usual everyday to go to work. Usually no one is on it or just one or two. Today a girl came on and she has a hospital tag on her wrist (bus stop is right out front the hospital) and she told the bus driver she escaped. She had a huge rock in her hand too. Maybe she really did break out? Anyway she came and sat next to me. Talked to me about nonsense. She kept leaning on me and resting her head on my shoulder. Eventually she started rubbing her hand up and down my leg. Close to my crotch. I couldn't help but get a boner. Who wouldn't? She had a huge cleavage showing and I kept on looking at her breasts. I was particularly horny as well today. This just made it worst. I haven't had sex since my gf left. So she was still rubbing my leg and smiling. So I just grabbed her tit (outside not inside) for like two seconds. I poked it a couple times too. That is all I did. I'd never do anything more than that. I'm sure she would of let me do more but I didnt.

I hopped off the bus and we both parted ways and I left her behind. Didn't say anything. I'm sure she was on meds or something. Or just naturally messed up in the head. Well anyway, I feel really bad now that I did that. Am I creep for doing that? I mean she started. I shouldn't of touched her and just move somewhere else. But having a random girl rubbing me up with her tits in my face was very hard to ignore. Oh yeah, the bus had cameras too. :/

Opinions please. Anything!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hmm. Gaming the mentally ill. I hadn't thought of that. Good one OP.
 

tony-montana

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I wasn't gaming anyone. I was just going to work like any other day and today a girl started rubbing my leg. Her tits were showing from cleavage so I thought why not and grabbed it for like two seconds. It does sound like a BS story and I know it's hard to believe, it's like something out of a movie. I couldn't believe it and still can't. I feel really bad about it and don't know how to get over it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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sylvester the cat

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To get over anything you have to forget about it. Put it out of your mind. Or replace it with something else rather. In this respect you can see how creating threads about a situation you want to get over isn't really the best plan.
 
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