"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Girl on bus felt me up. I grabbed her breast. I have a gf.

tony-montana

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Okay. Firstly, I have a gf who I met while she was visiting my country (for a year) we would meet up every weekend (Sat and Sun) and she started sleeping over too. So we became a couple. Eventually she stayed at my house for a month and then she had to go back to her country. I went with her for a vacation. It's been 6 months now we haven't seen each other. We talk every single day on the phone and text. She's in love with me. We are a long distance couple until I propose to her I guess. Then she can move to my country. Now I'm a very sexual person. I catch public transport everyday to work and I'm surrounded by tits and ass every day all day. It drives me crazy. So...

It happened this morning and now I feel weird about it.

I caught the bus as usual everyday to go to work. Usually no one is on it or just one or two. Today a girl came on and she has a hospital tag on her wrist (bus stop is right out front the hospital) and she told the bus driver she escaped. She had a huge rock in her hand too. Maybe she really did break out? Anyway she came and sat next to me. Talked to me about nonsense. She kept leaning on me and resting her head on my shoulder. Eventually she started rubbing her hand up and down my leg. Close to my crotch. I couldn't help but get a boner. Who wouldn't? She had a huge cleavage showing and I kept on looking at her breasts. I was particularly horny as well today. This just made it worst. I haven't had sex since my gf left. So she was still rubbing my leg and smiling. So I just grabbed her tit (outside not inside) for like two seconds. I poked it a couple times too. That is all I did. I'd never do anything more than that. I'm sure she would of let me do more but I didnt.

I hopped off the bus and we both parted ways and I left her behind. Didn't say anything. I'm sure she was on meds or something. Or just naturally messed up in the head. Well anyway, I feel really bad now that I did that. Am I creep for doing that? I mean she started. I shouldn't of touched her and just move somewhere else. But having a random girl rubbing me up with her tits in my face was very hard to ignore. Oh yeah, the bus had cameras too. :/

Opinions please. Anything!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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sylvester the cat

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Hmm. Gaming the mentally ill. I hadn't thought of that. Good one OP.
 

tony-montana

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I wasn't gaming anyone. I was just going to work like any other day and today a girl started rubbing my leg. Her tits were showing from cleavage so I thought why not and grabbed it for like two seconds. It does sound like a BS story and I know it's hard to believe, it's like something out of a movie. I couldn't believe it and still can't. I feel really bad about it and don't know how to get over it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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sylvester the cat

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To get over anything you have to forget about it. Put it out of your mind. Or replace it with something else rather. In this respect you can see how creating threads about a situation you want to get over isn't really the best plan.
 
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