"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girl Offers To Help Me Pickup Other Girls?!?

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I was out working it a couple weekends ago. One situation frustrated me: I'm wondering if I should've looked at it as an opportunity rather than as a brush off.

I was talking to a couple of Asian girls. One was very cute, and she gravitated towards me when I opened them both. As in, hogging the conversation, making strong eye contact and so on. I don't recall a lot of the conversation, but I joked around with her saying that I was a "babysitter." For some reason, she really dug that.

As my "reward" she said she was going to help me pick up "other girls." I took this to mean that she was not PERSONALLY interested but would help me find other girls who were interested. Or, was she suggesting a threesome?

I took it as an indication she wasn't interested, or at best playing hard to get.

How would you have taken this and followed up? I figured: shy Asian girl, she doesn't want to hook up tonight...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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fertileTurtle

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Good girl. Now I reward you with a kung fu fvck.
 

horaholic

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let her. Her jealousy will kick in, and you will have two girls interested.
 

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evesman said:
I was out working it a couple weekends ago. One situation frustrated me: I'm wondering if I should've looked at it as an opportunity rather than as a brush off.

I was talking to a couple of Asian girls. One was very cute, and she gravitated towards me when I opened them both. As in, hogging the conversation, making strong eye contact and so on. I don't recall a lot of the conversation, but I joked around with her saying that I was a "babysitter." For some reason, she really dug that.

As my "reward" she said she was going to help me pick up "other girls." I took this to mean that she was not PERSONALLY interested but would help me find other girls who were interested. Or, was she suggesting a threesome?

I took it as an indication she wasn't interested, or at best playing hard to get.

How would you have taken this and followed up? I figured: shy Asian girl, she doesn't want to hook up tonight...
That's what it meant. She is not PERSONALLY interested, but thought you were nice, and thought you'd need the help.

She was not suggesting a threesome. Can't be a shy Asian girl who doesn't want to hook up tonight and be looking for a threesome at the same time.

Yes, use her as social prof, and be friends with them, you can later go out socially and pick up more.
 

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I'll help you pick up girls = shy asian girl getting to know u better without the chat up awkwardness to see if she wants it
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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