I was out working it a couple weekends ago. One situation frustrated me: I'm wondering if I should've looked at it as an opportunity rather than as a brush off.
I was talking to a couple of Asian girls. One was very cute, and she gravitated towards me when I opened them both. As in, hogging the conversation, making strong eye contact and so on. I don't recall a lot of the conversation, but I joked around with her saying that I was a "babysitter." For some reason, she really dug that.
As my "reward" she said she was going to help me pick up "other girls." I took this to mean that she was not PERSONALLY interested but would help me find other girls who were interested. Or, was she suggesting a threesome?
I took it as an indication she wasn't interested, or at best playing hard to get.
How would you have taken this and followed up? I figured: shy Asian girl, she doesn't want to hook up tonight...
I was talking to a couple of Asian girls. One was very cute, and she gravitated towards me when I opened them both. As in, hogging the conversation, making strong eye contact and so on. I don't recall a lot of the conversation, but I joked around with her saying that I was a "babysitter." For some reason, she really dug that.
As my "reward" she said she was going to help me pick up "other girls." I took this to mean that she was not PERSONALLY interested but would help me find other girls who were interested. Or, was she suggesting a threesome?
I took it as an indication she wasn't interested, or at best playing hard to get.
How would you have taken this and followed up? I figured: shy Asian girl, she doesn't want to hook up tonight...