"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Girl Offers To Help Me Pickup Other Girls?!?

evesman

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I was out working it a couple weekends ago. One situation frustrated me: I'm wondering if I should've looked at it as an opportunity rather than as a brush off.

I was talking to a couple of Asian girls. One was very cute, and she gravitated towards me when I opened them both. As in, hogging the conversation, making strong eye contact and so on. I don't recall a lot of the conversation, but I joked around with her saying that I was a "babysitter." For some reason, she really dug that.

As my "reward" she said she was going to help me pick up "other girls." I took this to mean that she was not PERSONALLY interested but would help me find other girls who were interested. Or, was she suggesting a threesome?

I took it as an indication she wasn't interested, or at best playing hard to get.

How would you have taken this and followed up? I figured: shy Asian girl, she doesn't want to hook up tonight...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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fertileTurtle

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Good girl. Now I reward you with a kung fu fvck.
 

horaholic

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let her. Her jealousy will kick in, and you will have two girls interested.
 

Gangster Of Love

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evesman said:
I was out working it a couple weekends ago. One situation frustrated me: I'm wondering if I should've looked at it as an opportunity rather than as a brush off.

I was talking to a couple of Asian girls. One was very cute, and she gravitated towards me when I opened them both. As in, hogging the conversation, making strong eye contact and so on. I don't recall a lot of the conversation, but I joked around with her saying that I was a "babysitter." For some reason, she really dug that.

As my "reward" she said she was going to help me pick up "other girls." I took this to mean that she was not PERSONALLY interested but would help me find other girls who were interested. Or, was she suggesting a threesome?

I took it as an indication she wasn't interested, or at best playing hard to get.

How would you have taken this and followed up? I figured: shy Asian girl, she doesn't want to hook up tonight...
That's what it meant. She is not PERSONALLY interested, but thought you were nice, and thought you'd need the help.

She was not suggesting a threesome. Can't be a shy Asian girl who doesn't want to hook up tonight and be looking for a threesome at the same time.

Yes, use her as social prof, and be friends with them, you can later go out socially and pick up more.
 

Cinamon

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I'll help you pick up girls = shy asian girl getting to know u better without the chat up awkwardness to see if she wants it
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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