Girl not wanting to meetup.

[Skyline]

I've been talking to this girl for about a week now. I met her through mutual friends and we hit it off. I'm at the point whereshe sends me nudes, told me her life story, responds near instantly, and is consistently flirty.

She won't meet up because she states that she is nervous. My gut is telling me that something is up and I personally don't fathom that she won't even meet me in person.

Am I crazy for wanting to meet up with a girl after a week of meeting and hitting it off? She is also the shy type as well.

Her actions seem to be mixed. On one side of the coin, she's everything a girl that's interested is. The other side, she won't meet up.

What do you guys recommend?

 

[wifehunter]

Ease off, you may be coming on too strong. Give her enough space to hunt you down like the catch that you are.

You are a catch, right? If not, forget her, and work on that.

 

[Skyline]

Ease off, you may be coming on too strong. Give her enough space to hunt you down like the catch that you are.

You are a catch, right? If not, forget her, and work on that.

That's exactly what I was thinking. I gave her all of this attention so I think that it's definitely time to back off.

We've talked once today and I plan on spacing out my responses by simply keeping myself busy.

 

[Spaz]

I've been talking to this girl for about a week now. I met her through mutual friends and we hit it off. I'm at the point whereshe sends me nudes, told me her life story, responds near instantly, and is consistently flirty.

She won't meet up because she states that she is nervous. My gut is telling me that something is up and I personally don't fathom that she won't even meet me in person.

Am I crazy for wanting to meet up with a girl after a week of meeting and hitting it off? She is also the shy type as well.

Her actions seem to be mixed. On one side of the coin, she's everything a girl that's interested is. The other side, she won't meet up.

What do you guys recommend?

She's likely married

 

[Skyline]

She's likely married

Oh no, I'm 21 and she's 19. Definitely not married!

 

[wifehunter]

She's likely married

Yeah, married to her iphone!

 

[Spaz]

Oh no, I'm 21 and she's 19. Definitely not married!

She certainly enjoys having orbiters

 

[Skyline]

She certainly enjoys having orbiters

Yeah I think that's what the gut feeling was warning me about. But I've never heard of a girl posing and sending nudes of herself to one of her orbiters.

I'm definitely not in too deep to grab the reins on this one so I should be fine. We will see if she's truly interested or not soon.

 

[devilkingx2]

I've been talking to this girl for about a week now. I met her through mutual friends and we hit it off. I'm at the point whereshe sends me nudes, told me her life story, responds near instantly, and is consistently flirty.

She won't meet up because she states that she is nervous. My gut is telling me that something is up and I personally don't fathom that she won't even meet me in person.

Am I crazy for wanting to meet up with a girl after a week of meeting and hitting it off? She is also the shy type as well.

Her actions seem to be mixed. On one side of the coin, she's everything a girl that's interested is. The other side, she won't meet up.

What do you guys recommend?

Sounds like she doesn't want to connect her slvtty inner self with her actual self

Like she leads a secret online double life where she sends guys nudes but in reality she's supposed to be a good girl.

Imagine her like a girl who sucks off two different guys in the same night at a party but made her boyfriend wait 5 dates for a handjob

 

[Skyline]

Sounds like she doesn't want to connect her slvtty inner self with her actual self

Like she leads a secret online double life where she sends guys nudes but in reality she's supposed to be a good girl.

Imagine her like a girl who sucks off two different guys in the same night at a party but made her boyfriend wait 5 dates for a handjob

She's openly admitted to me that she has an 'inner slvt.' She also dressed up as Harley Quinn for Halloween. But nearly all girls are inner slvuts and use Halloween as an excuse to dress up like one.

I hope this isn't the case, but I'm pretty sure that my gut was warning me about this. The nudes is how she would reel guys in. But I've seen enough sexy women to not really do anything stupid from receiving them. Like I said, I'm not in too deep so we shall see.

 

[Skyline]

The more I think about it, she definitely sounds like an attention wh*re.

Thanks for the input guys!

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I've been talking to this girl for about a week now. I met her through mutual friends and we hit it off. I'm at the point whereshe sends me nudes, told me her life story, responds near instantly, and is consistently flirty.

She won't meet up because she states that she is nervous. My gut is telling me that something is up and I personally don't fathom that she won't even meet me in person.

Am I crazy for wanting to meet up with a girl after a week of meeting and hitting it off? She is also the shy type as well.

Her actions seem to be mixed. On one side of the coin, she's everything a girl that's interested is. The other side, she won't meet up.

What do you guys recommend?

Cucked /thread

 

[devilkingx2]

She's openly admitted to me that she has an 'inner slvt.' She also dressed up as Harley Quinn for Halloween. But nearly all girls are inner slvuts and use Halloween as an excuse to dress up like one.

Dressing slvtty on halloween doesn't count for the same reason wearing a bikini on the beach doesn't count imo

 

[Skyline]

Dressing slvtty on halloween doesn't count for the same reason wearing a bikini on the beach doesn't count imo

Yeah that's why I kind of ignored it.

But I'll see how it goes. One side, she's probably interested but I'm coming on to strong. The other, she might be an attention wh*re.

Withdrawing my attention is the best route right now. I'm not loosing anything by doing so. It really is true that the best thing to do is go ghost and spin plates.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Update us with what happens OP

 

[lizardking82]

No, biggie, sit back and watch the situation unravel. Back off a bit, make it known that you will comunicate, but the lower the chances you get the *****, the less time and attention you give to her. Remember, the basic transaction that happens at your age between any guy and girl is ***** = time and attention. I am not gonna tell you "next right away", I am telling you to fit the time and attention you give her to the probability she's giving you to get her *****. Right now, don't pay her more than casual conversations here and there during the day.

 

[sosousage]

I had exact same situation. She talked with me for attention only. Next her. Dont waste time

 

[Solomon]

sounds like a classic AW to me, I would withdraw attention OP and focus on other girls

 

[sosousage]

funny thing she said she was raped when she was child. i think that was a lie. i was supposed to say "oh im sorry to hear it are u ok honey now?" weird thing she said this before meeting.

 

[Solomon]

funny thing she said she was raped when she was child. i think that was a lie. i was supposed to say "oh im sorry to hear it are u ok honey now?" weird thing she said this before meeting.

Stay away from her

I went on a few dates with a POF chick who was raped, she was DTF, but she was a basket case.

I friendzoned her and she kept trying to change my mind eventually she moved on. don't take these girls serious and eject!