"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I would suggest you not ask her if she just wants to be friends. She a girl so her emotions are crazy because of that alone. She just broke up with her boyfriend so multiply that by 100. Basically, she doesn't know what the hell she wants.

I would then suggest that you set up another date, even though she's blown you off twice already. If she bails out of the 3rd, then blow her off. Too many girls in the world for you to be worried about 1. Get out there and find them. You'll be out with hot chicks everyother night and she'll be at home still trying to figure out what happened with her ex-boyfriend.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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kdnash82 said:
I would suggest you not ask her if she just wants to be friends. She a girl so her emotions are crazy because of that alone. She just broke up with her boyfriend so multiply that by 100. Basically, she doesn't know what the hell she wants.

I would then suggest that you set up another date, even though she's blown you off twice already. If she bails out of the 3rd, then blow her off. Too many girls in the world for you to be worried about 1. Get out there and find them. You'll be out with hot chicks everyother night and she'll be at home still trying to figure out what happened with her ex-boyfriend.
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What the heck is this site turning into? Set up a third date?!?!?! Why? Believing that this girl will "come around" is pure fantasy. She doesn't "see him as boyfriend material now.

What do you guys expect her to tell him? "Well since you put it that way, I'll stop thinking about my ex and devote my time to you. You're a good guy and have always been there for me." That bullsh!t ain't gonna happen.
 
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Beware of being the "Rebound Guy." :nono:
 
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Pappadapolis said:
What the heck is this site turning into? Set up a third date?!?!?! Why? Believing that this girl will "come around" is pure fantasy. She doesn't "see him as boyfriend material now.

What do you guys expect her to tell him? "Well since you put it that way, I'll stop thinking about my ex and devote my time to you. You're a good guy and have always been there for me." That bullsh!t ain't gonna happen.
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Who said anything about him becoming a boyfriend. She's just got out of a relationship. His whole mentality should be just to get some booty. if he's after a relationship with this girl, then he needs a kick in the butt.

Get the booty, move on, if she comes back for more, then great for you.
 
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Why are you wasting time with this woman? Ask her for $80 in counciling fee's and tell her that the time is up.

Cut her off. Nappy, I don't think you quite understand what this site is about. I Sentence you to 40hrs of reading this entire site. and 20 additional hrs of re-reading the DJ Bible.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Don't send her any messages, cut her off. Chicks will tell you what you want to hear just to string you along. You're giving her the attention she can't get from her ex. You're already in the friend zone. Keeping contact with this girls is a crutch, it shows you can't go without her.

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Nice video.
But it doesn't matter what she thinks of me, when I send the message? if I wont ever see her again, right? I could tell her I'm an AFC fagg0t and it wouldn't make a difference. It would, if I still wanted to see her, but now I dont so...
 
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Nice video.
But it doesn't matter what she thinks of me, when I send the message? if I wont ever see her again, right? I could tell her I'm an AFC fagg0t and it wouldn't make a difference. It would, if I still wanted to see her, but now I dont so...
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I could be missing something here but why do you even need to send her a message. Want to really gauge her interest? Like several others have said already, just completely cease contact. If she starts to contact you wondering what's going on then there's at least some interest but no more than that. If not, well then you saved yourself the bother.
 
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do NOT send that message.
it will get you no where and she will NEVER contact you again and you will come off looking like some weirdo guy who wont leave her alone.

please respect yourself enough not to send her any texts stuff what so ever.
 
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But I should at least tell her we're not gonna meet. Or are you saying I should flake. I don't like that...
 
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napoleon said:
But I should at least tell her we're not gonna meet. Or are you saying I should flake. I don't like that...
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Gah! Flake. But you never should have contacted her in the first place.You have all these dudes telling you not to contact her but you seem intent on doing it. It's your life and you're free to do that if you want to. But those of us that of read the articles and have lived it in life know you are heading down a dead end road.

It seems like you'll have be boot camped before you'll understand. This girl will have to tear you down before you can be built back up.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Your fvcked... actually your not fvcked if you catch my drift...

I've been in this same situation. You might as well move on and dont waste your time.
 
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Paintballguy said:
Your fvcked... actually your not fvcked if you catch my drift...

I've been in this same situation. You might as well move on and dont waste your time.
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I'm mind fuched;)



Oh, when I said flake I meant Stand her up. Since she never let me wait for her, but always said over the phone she won't make it I'll just write a sms:
Listen, I won't make it today....
And never call again.
 
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