"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Girl not into your plans.

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I've been seeing this girl for the last month. We had sex already and everything seems to be okay. Well not really.

Almost everytime we are doing something is her idea. My ideas usually fall through and last time I suggested X date she flaked but later on asked to go do her plan.

Thoughts?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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PokerStar

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either your plans are really boring or she is trying to take control of the relationship.
 

Websterdic

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I don't think my plans are boring. Even if they were shouldn't she compromise?

I don't know how I should proceed.
 

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your gut is saying something is wrong...listen to it.
 

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The spark of interest is dying out and/or she got another man.

Call her on her bs. In the meantime, spin more plates.

Case closed.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If a girl is into she'll just about stick red hot pokers in her eyes just to be with you. Her controlling the destinations means she's not into you and if she was she's lost that attraction.
 

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I don't even. know if its worth calling her out, like I said we've been going out for almost a month. Maybe I shouldn't contact her anymore and thats that.
 

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Her Interest Level is LOW! DUMP HER! For the first TWO Months she has to go with your date ideas. If she doesnt like your plans or trys to counter offer. She is INFLEXABLE / LOW INTEREST. Only after 2 months you can ease up and ask what she wants to do. She has to pass your test first.
 

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Its completely stunning how much TRASH men are willing to endure for some puzzy.

Have some fvcking pride in yourself man!

Dump this cvnt...and find a women who GENUINELY likes you and isn't just out to use you like a puppet for her amusement.
 

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She has deemed you as second rate. She's living her own life doing whatever the hell she wants, but she feels sorry for you sometimes so she asks you to do stuff.

Your suggestions of doing things do not excite her, but you're nice and so sometimes she takes pity on you.


Solution: Be a man. Men biologically, are supposed to rule women. It's how it works. (I hate feminists)

If she's putting you aside, DUMP HER. IGNORE HER. KICK HER OUT OF YOUR KINGDOM. Men are kings, women are supposed to be the queens.

Don't let her drag you around.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Burroughs said:
Its completely stunning how much TRASH men are willing to endure for some puzzy.

Have some fvcking pride in yourself man!

Dump this cvnt...and find a women who GENUINELY likes you and isn't just out to use you like a puppet for her amusement.
The judge cosigns here! I see quite a lot of these cases here.
 

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Sounds like you're her toy for the moment. You're ok enough
for her to take you on her plans as she does not want to go places or do things
alone. But not good enough for her to care about what you want.

It is what it is bro, just treat her like a FB. Thats f*ck buddy, not girlfriend, very important
and very different. Thats all.
 

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I've found that the more into me a woman is, the more she also seems to be "into" the things that I'm into.

Remarkable how that works out.

I'm sure there's a LESSON to be learned from that if we just stop and think about it long enough...:yes:
 
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