"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I've been seeing this girl for the last month. We had sex already and everything seems to be okay. Well not really.

Almost everytime we are doing something is her idea. My ideas usually fall through and last time I suggested X date she flaked but later on asked to go do her plan.

Thoughts?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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PokerStar

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either your plans are really boring or she is trying to take control of the relationship.
 

Websterdic

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I don't think my plans are boring. Even if they were shouldn't she compromise?

I don't know how I should proceed.
 

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your gut is saying something is wrong...listen to it.
 

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The spark of interest is dying out and/or she got another man.

Call her on her bs. In the meantime, spin more plates.

Case closed.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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If a girl is into she'll just about stick red hot pokers in her eyes just to be with you. Her controlling the destinations means she's not into you and if she was she's lost that attraction.
 

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I don't even. know if its worth calling her out, like I said we've been going out for almost a month. Maybe I shouldn't contact her anymore and thats that.
 

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Her Interest Level is LOW! DUMP HER! For the first TWO Months she has to go with your date ideas. If she doesnt like your plans or trys to counter offer. She is INFLEXABLE / LOW INTEREST. Only after 2 months you can ease up and ask what she wants to do. She has to pass your test first.
 

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Its completely stunning how much TRASH men are willing to endure for some puzzy.

Have some fvcking pride in yourself man!

Dump this cvnt...and find a women who GENUINELY likes you and isn't just out to use you like a puppet for her amusement.
 

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She has deemed you as second rate. She's living her own life doing whatever the hell she wants, but she feels sorry for you sometimes so she asks you to do stuff.

Your suggestions of doing things do not excite her, but you're nice and so sometimes she takes pity on you.


Solution: Be a man. Men biologically, are supposed to rule women. It's how it works. (I hate feminists)

If she's putting you aside, DUMP HER. IGNORE HER. KICK HER OUT OF YOUR KINGDOM. Men are kings, women are supposed to be the queens.

Don't let her drag you around.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Burroughs said:
Its completely stunning how much TRASH men are willing to endure for some puzzy.

Have some fvcking pride in yourself man!

Dump this cvnt...and find a women who GENUINELY likes you and isn't just out to use you like a puppet for her amusement.
The judge cosigns here! I see quite a lot of these cases here.
 

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Sounds like you're her toy for the moment. You're ok enough
for her to take you on her plans as she does not want to go places or do things
alone. But not good enough for her to care about what you want.

It is what it is bro, just treat her like a FB. Thats f*ck buddy, not girlfriend, very important
and very different. Thats all.
 

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I've found that the more into me a woman is, the more she also seems to be "into" the things that I'm into.

Remarkable how that works out.

I'm sure there's a LESSON to be learned from that if we just stop and think about it long enough...:yes:
 
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