girl moving too fast

[topher]

Ok so I've seen this girl 2 times in the last week now somehow I booked myself two more dates in a row, saturday and sunday, dont ask.

This girl seems nice for the most part, we really "click" together and have had a nice makeout session. So she is really into me and all that but she seems like shes getting into relationship mode already.

I don't want to settle with one chick right away but I still want to date this one girl.

So my question is by me telling her that we are moving too fast is that going to hurt her somehow or degrade her IL in me at all or will it up it? of course i realize every girl is going to be different, Im pretty sure someone else went through this so Im sure you could tell me what happened in your situation.

Oh yeah I have tried to search for this but the lack of phrase searching on the forum makes wading through articles kinda tiresome.

Thanks in advance.

 

[Joe The Homophobe]

Originally posted by topher

I don't want to settle with one chick right away but I still want to date this one girl.

So what is stopping you my friend? why don't you have more than one girlfriend? you can always go out with 2 or more girls at the same time as long as they don't know about it. You ain't married to them you have no obligation to any woman.

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

Re: Re: girl moving too fast

Originally posted by Joe The Homophobe
So what is stopping you my friend? why don't you have more than one girlfriend? you can always go out with 2 or more girls at the same time as long as they don't know about it. You ain't married to them you have no obligation to any woman.

Nobody has any obligation at all until you both agree to be exclusive. Until then it is no hold barred.

 

[christz]

let me tell you something about things that go to well

there's usally always a hitch, if something seems to good to be true, sometimes it normally is.

i'm not saying that's the case here, but it takes a little bit of time to click with a girl, granted sometimes you hit it off right away it happens, rarely but that's not what i'm talking about i'm talking about if you hit it off right away and things seem to be progressing at a light speed pace, something is up

 

[topher]

Originally posted by
Joe The Homophobe
So what is stopping you my friend? why don't you have more than one girlfriend? you can always go out with 2 or more girls at the same time as long as they don't know about it. You ain't married to them you have no obligation to any woman.

Originally posted by TillTheEndOfTime

Nobody has any obligation at all until you both agree to be exclusive. Until then it is no hold barred.

you're right fellas, as long as I can keep it under wraps I think it'll work. i plan on doing some prowling tomorrow afternoon.

Originally posted by christz

let me tell you something about things that go to well

there's usally always a hitch, if something seems to good to be true, sometimes it normally is.

i'm not saying that's the case here, but it takes a little bit of time to click with a girl, granted sometimes you hit it off right away it happens, rarely but that's not what i'm talking about i'm talking about if you hit it off right away and things seem to be progressing at a light speed pace, something is up

Yeah, i didnt cold approach this one girl, she works at a place that I frequent so she sees me around 3 times a week and we've talked here and there for the past 3 months, only recently I decided to let her pursue me. I figure the rapport I've built with her just from the small talk has led to her sky high interest, who knows?!?!

either way tonight she said to me "oh no what am I getting myself into, after 3 outings i still dont get you, your such a challenge" i just kinda laughed and said yep thats me. all i know is im doing something right.

thanks for your feedback it opened my eyes.

 

[Maximus_Decimus]

Originally posted by topher
you're right fellas, as long as I can keep it under wraps I think it'll work. i plan on doing some prowling tomorrow afternoon.

It is okay to date as many women as you want as long as you aren't in an exclusive relationship with any of them. But if one of them asks if you are seeing other women, you would be a more moral man by answering them honestly.

Maximus_Decimus

 

[topher]

Originally posted by Maximus_Decimus
It is okay to date as many women as you want as long as you aren't in an exclusive relationship with any of them. But if one of them asks if you are seeing other women, you would be a more moral man by answering them honestly.

Maximus_Decimus

i agree, honesty is the best policy, i don't lie about anything, i just don't volunteer the info, but if she asks specifically i will anwser honestly.