girl might kill herself what do i do?

[gdi]

This girl who told me intially she was just down to hook up and mess around like nothing more, hella fell for me i cut her off before and she was sucidal sent to a like pyschward for 3 days under hella close watch.

Well i told her again today that i just can't be that guy in her life. She just didn't even say anything really till the very end and yea all bad.

Now maybe this isn't DJ thing or whatever but i need advice, this girl was really troubled before she met me and i think up until now ive really helped her, she was just out of control at her home and everything she now appercaites her parents and respects them, but im worried for her health, mental and physical.

im just looking for advice thanks ahead of time.

 

[davester88]

that girl has more issues then you can control. none of that is your problem. she's trouble....stay away

 

[CCKazi007]

Get the hell away from her! she's going to eventually bring you down and she's not worth it. It may be hard but for your own good leave her and find someone normal. Unless you like the drama or watever it's not your duty to save her ass from bouncin. Even if she doesn't kill herself your relationship with her will be f(cked up. Cut off ALL CONTACT and DON'T LOOK BACK.

 

[gdi]

alright i was never in a real relationship with this girl, and i did play her horribely(right now im "talking" with 5 girls) so its not like im connceted im just worried cause i mean yea shes crazy but her family doesn't deserve that. Plus i do know them from way back.

 

[penkitten]

what makes you think she would actually harm herself?

 

[gdi]

well shes on drugs to stop her from doing it, last time wasn't as rough as this and she had to be hospitalized, and like shes going through hella **** besides this so yea.

 

[MilanoRedDC5]

I see this from a different angle than the other DJ's...

This girl may need you and for all we know, you may love her?

IF and ONLY IF you do in fact love this girl, than stick through it. A great friend of mine, he's actually a doctor... He married a woman that was severe bi-polar and OCD. No matter what the problems she has mentally, the woman is gorgeous!

Aside from that, she loves him unconditionally only for one reason, he's the one and only man that can physically take care of her. Stick through it if you care about her bro, in all reailty you may need eachother.

 

[gdi]

see its not like that, Milanored, i can see what your saying but in my sitatuion i feel more like an older brother like i just want her to be alright, ya know cause she didn't need any more **** in her life and i just gave her some to deal with. I sorta am disapointed in myself but its not really messing up to bad so yea. Thanks as always for the advice guys.

 

[Berlex]

neg hit her

 

[sexy_kuta]

FUKING RUN MAN RUN AS FAST AS U CAN!!!! i mean that litterlly, RUN!
RUN RUN RUN! those b1tches are scary they will make ur life miserbal, they will eat the sh1t out of ur life,

 

[dirtyvibe]

talk to her parents, and try to help her as much as you can without getting yourself involved.

 

[The Shocker]

I see this from a different angle than the other DJ's...

This girl may need you and for all we know, you may love her?

IF and ONLY IF you do in fact love this girl, than stick through it. A great friend of mine, he's actually a doctor... He married a woman that was severe bi-polar and OCD. No matter what the problems she has mentally, the woman is gorgeous!

Aside from that, she loves him unconditionally only for one reason, he's the one and only man that can physically take care of her. Stick through it if you care about her bro, in all reailty you may need eachother.

Don't listen to this shiat. You don't love her. Her parents already know she's suicidal, that's her problem and theirs to deal with as parents. You are nobody. Cut off romantic contact.

 

[Drones200]

From a dude who has dated nothing more then rocker-gothic girls i seing these so many times is not even funny.

IS all bs.
Simple.

One of my ex'es did the same thing, tried to drown herself in her bathtub and was sent to one of the psychiatric places*too bad she was so hot* we broke up soon after that and she said she was going to commit suicide i told her i coulnt be there for her anymore that she was dragging me down with her , long story short she texted me saying oh im going to kill myself but dude look at the facts the majority of girls who commit suicide in the US is way less then guys. Shes bluffing, shes just being an emo drama queen, she will cry her ass off and move on, eventually hate you but at least you moved on and you shoulnt be stuck with no crazed ***** no matter how hott.

BTW that was a long while ago i saw her again the other day i decided to aproach her and see what happend with her life,shes now in the drama club with a very promising career in films, shes got straight a's and loves the film jig and has another bf shes in love with. They move on and use there emoness in other fields.

Most rocker chicks i dated had being either emo or a little in the flip side crazy, and way kinky. Is my thing what can i say but mostly those are the ****ed up ones so i know a little on how to deal with there emo attitude.

 

[Drones200]

I see this from a different angle than the other DJ's...

This girl may need you and for all we know, you may love her?

IF and ONLY IF you do in fact love this girl, than stick through it. A great friend of mine, he's actually a doctor... He married a woman that was severe bi-polar and OCD. No matter what the problems she has mentally, the woman is gorgeous!

Aside from that, she loves him unconditionally only for one reason, he's the one and only man that can physically take care of her. Stick through it if you care about her bro, in all reailty you may need eachother.

Seriously i have tried these almost everytime, being there for her and really if you dont want to wake up every night to hear some horrible depressing story about retarded things you should move on. Your life and DJ skills depend on them, because she will drag you down wheter you like it or not if you follow these advise. If there parents cant help her or doctors chances are some 16year old bf isnt going to help her either.

 

[michaelhctam]

This girl who told me intially she was just down to hook up and mess around like nothing more, hella fell for me i cut her off before and she was sucidal sent to a like pyschward for 3 days under hella close watch.

Well i told her again today that i just can't be that guy in her life. She just didn't even say anything really till the very end and yea all bad.

Now maybe this isn't DJ thing or whatever but i need advice, this girl was really troubled before she met me and i think up until now ive really helped her, she was just out of control at her home and everything she now appercaites her parents and respects them, but im worried for her health, mental and physical.

im just looking for advice thanks ahead of time.

Ouch, stay away from this girl!

How did you meet her in the first place?!

 

[Precursor]

you don't own her, you guy aren't related, let her parents deal with their own daughter. as for you, go enjoy your life.

 

[Nighthawk]

If she mentions it, berate her for how selfish it would be, how you could never cause so much pain to your friends and family that way, and just think it's weak and pathetic.

She won't bother you with any more drama-queen bullsh*t.

 

[gdi]

Alright well shes not 51/50 anymore i think but seeing her today was depressing i mean, it sounds pretty **** but it doesn't affect my life cause she was never more than a hook up to me, i saw she was troubled and i helped her with that, her parents thanked me. I think sometimes you gotta look at it and thats what i did, i could have ****ed this girl up even more she was ready to have me be her first. Theres alot more going on in these girls lives, now thats not to say ive stopped im still ****ing over girls, i just practice spitting game to every girl and i learn what works and doesn't and gives me confidence for when i really wanna close the deal, cause i havn't met the one thats worth giving the rest up for. But just keep in mind this so called "dj" behavoir effects girls more than you think.

That said i have no attachment to her or any of that **** so don't tell me to not stick with her cause ill be there for her as a friend cause i don't want anything else. Call if afc if you knew what you were talking about you'd understand.

and to all who offered real advice, thanks.

 

[handle]

This happened with me and a chick. She became crazily attached to me, then a few days later she's contemplating suicide for whatever reason. At this point I swore I was not getting involved with this girl, even though we both were crazy over eachother (harder than you think, because it was so obvious we had this amazing connection and I kept trying to divert it from going that way).
She'd keep wanting to be around me though, and I'd try to help, but my advice was usually "I think that from what you've said this is a pretty serious thing and you need to talk to someone who knows what they're doing about this stuff." The fact is, I wanted to help, but I knew that I couldn't let this bring me down too much. She got some stuff sorted out, and I didn't talk to her much for a while. From then on, slowly she's been getting better I think, but for a long time she was in that state where she's probably being overdramatically pessimistic. I guess you could say "attention *****," so I did what I thought would help: didn't respond to it, let her know that at some point people aren't going to care about your complaining, even if you were suicidal a year ago. Now, finally, she's getting much better and I'm hanging out with her a bit more.

A lot of these guys take this DJ stuff and twist it to a whole new level of self-centeredness and selfishness. What would a DJ really do? I think he would be there for some support but would not be the crying shoulder or the attention-giver. When people are legitimately depressed, you definately should go out of your way to make sure they see the right people. Avoid being the person who's filling the gap. Usually, at some point after the major depressive episode, people are bound to become attention *****s for a while. At that point, feel free to back away, they may even realize that their complaining is unwanted when you do so. Until then, though, don't be a jackass.

 

[Silus]

neg hit her

I was bawling with laughter as i read this !