"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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chancer

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I was kickin it with this girl last weekend and she says I bet you have all of these girls... The first time i ignored it, and then she said it again. So I just asked her if she thought I was a player. And she said no.

How should I respond to this?

Another girl was like, you're just gonna talk to the other girls huh? It felt like she was testing me. I didn't want to answer, but then I thought about it and just said yeah like it was nothing.

Am i missing something here? :p
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Just a $hit test. No more, no less.

Hell, let them think you have other girls and other options. Drives them nuts.
 
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