Girl mentioned rape on first date! Should I run away ASAP?

[Bokanovsky]

Well, when would you tell a girl that your dad beat you? Or that you and your ex had an abortion? Or any other very, very personal and traumatic experiences? These things are not subjects you just throw out there on dates. Dates should be playful and fun and about enjoying each other, not getting into heavy psychological trauma. That's not normal or healthy behavior. It's oversharing of a specific type and it's usually done by people who have a lot of issues, one of which is maintaining a victim identity, and also being HIGH DRAMA. They tend to be negative and look for the worst in everything and complain a lot. You WILL end up the target of her complaints.

This is exactly right. When a woman unloads her heaviest baggage on you on the first date, like you are some luggage boy at a Holiday Inn, it can only mean one of two things: either she is incredibly dumb or she's trying to manipulate you (and may very well be lying). There is no other possible explanation.

 

[Machine10033]

Dude, I had to re-read your post like 3 times. The first couple times, I read 'Girl was 10....'

I didn't see the word 'A' in front. Haha.

Hahaha...21 is as low as I will ever go