"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Girl lost interest because I over escalated?

Kal0051

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909pua said:
yup..good job...how did you come to the conclusion now that she lost interest?

let me ask you something, have you ever made her orgasm? and tell us the truth...if you haven't then you don't have something you can give her, hence which is what alot of girls are looking for in guys that they let slip in their panties...
I never had sex with her. We only went out twice, after the first date she gave me head and all this garbage I posted about happened after the second date.

As far how I came to the conclusion that she lost interest, it's been a week and a half since our second date and I haven't heard from her at all. If she was interested in me at all I would have heard from her by now. Yes, I am assuming a bit but I'm probably right.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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hey man, i have this girl that im with right now that i have boned and gave an orgasm a bunch of times. let me tell you the deal, i have acted AFC on her, and even spread rumors at work (my bad) about me and her boning that got out of hand and she's still with me and she knows i spread the rumors...and we are still talking. i can only conclude that she's with me because of my skill in giving her a BIG O...which i think is why she's still talking to me... i think w/o this O skill that i can give her, it would have been over at the AFC stage i pulled on her almost 3 months ago. seriously man, not alot of guys are good at giving Orgasms to girls dude, this is why i think she's still talking to me.

come on, i acted AFC (cussing at her, getting jealous, etc) and spreaded rumors at work (my fault), and she's still talking to me? i can only conclude its the Os i give her..that's keeping us together.

if you fvk a girl good, trust me, you can pull the dumbest sh..t and she'll still stay with you!
 

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hey man, i have this girl that im with right now that i have boned and gave an orgasm a bunch of times. let me tell you the deal, i have acted AFC on her, and even spread rumors at work (my bad) about me and her boning that got out of hand and she's still with me and she knows i spread the rumors...and we are still talking. i can only conclude that she's with me because of my skill in giving her a BIG O...which i think is why she's still talking to me... i think w/o this O skill that i can give her, it would have been over at the AFC stage i pulled on her almost 3 months ago. seriously man, not alot of guys are good at giving Orgasms to girls dude, this is why i think she's still talking to me.

come on, i acted AFC (cussing at her, getting jealous, etc) and spreaded rumors at work (my fault), and she's still talking to me? i can only conclude its the Os i give her..that's keeping us together.

if you fvk a girl good, trust me, you can pull the dumbest sh..t and she'll still stay with you!
that's great man, a lot of girls can't *** that easily so when they find a guy that can make it happen they put up with a lot just for that physical release.

But don't see what that has to do with my situation.
 

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But don't see what that has to do with my situation.
well whatever it is that turned her off about you that made her lose interest, if you would have given her an O, she would have thought in her mind "well at least he can give me an orgasm, i can just use him for that" at least when she thinks like this, you can always patch things up that made her lose interest and start over and do things better.
 

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well whatever it is that turned her off about you that made her lose interest, if you would have given her an O, she would have thought in her mind "well at least he can give me an orgasm, i can just use him for that" at least when she thinks like this, you can always patch things up that made her lose interest and start over and do things better.
yeah too bad I didn't sleep with her then.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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