She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I never had sex with her. We only went out twice, after the first date she gave me head and all this garbage I posted about happened after the second date.909pua said:yup..good job...how did you come to the conclusion now that she lost interest?
let me ask you something, have you ever made her orgasm? and tell us the truth...if you haven't then you don't have something you can give her, hence which is what alot of girls are looking for in guys that they let slip in their panties...
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
that's great man, a lot of girls can't *** that easily so when they find a guy that can make it happen they put up with a lot just for that physical release.909pua said:hey man, i have this girl that im with right now that i have boned and gave an orgasm a bunch of times. let me tell you the deal, i have acted AFC on her, and even spread rumors at work (my bad) about me and her boning that got out of hand and she's still with me and she knows i spread the rumors...and we are still talking. i can only conclude that she's with me because of my skill in giving her a BIG O...which i think is why she's still talking to me... i think w/o this O skill that i can give her, it would have been over at the AFC stage i pulled on her almost 3 months ago. seriously man, not alot of guys are good at giving Orgasms to girls dude, this is why i think she's still talking to me.
come on, i acted AFC (cussing at her, getting jealous, etc) and spreaded rumors at work (my fault), and she's still talking to me? i can only conclude its the Os i give her..that's keeping us together.
if you fvk a girl good, trust me, you can pull the dumbest sh..t and she'll still stay with you!
well whatever it is that turned her off about you that made her lose interest, if you would have given her an O, she would have thought in her mind "well at least he can give me an orgasm, i can just use him for that" at least when she thinks like this, you can always patch things up that made her lose interest and start over and do things better.Kal0051 said:But don't see what that has to do with my situation.
yeah too bad I didn't sleep with her then.909pua said:well whatever it is that turned her off about you that made her lose interest, if you would have given her an O, she would have thought in her mind "well at least he can give me an orgasm, i can just use him for that" at least when she thinks like this, you can always patch things up that made her lose interest and start over and do things better.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.