Girl looking to CONTROL the relationship

[Fumbduck]

Hey guys-

A question: When I date, I take control; set the pace, pick where we go, and show her a good time. I'm sexual, funny, calm, and confident. Everything is planned in advance; I don't stick to a routine schedule but have an overall game plan so there's none of that "alright well i'm all out of options, what do youuuuuu wanna do BS" I call the shots, and take the lead. (when first dating, after the first few- i let her pick some things, etc; no control freak by any means- but as the man I feel you must take a certain 'control')

Now: lets say a girl you are pursuing is used to dating AFC guys, having THEM buy her everything, bleeding to them about other guys, molding them to what she wants, or think she wants in a "partner". I say "partner" because these guys are no men IMO. Indecisive, insecure, clingy; everything you would think a women would NOT want.

So let me ask you; WHY would a girl prefer dating someone that is easy for her to control? Do some girls just NEED that type of "man"? Afraid to reach for something better, underlying psychological problems? I'm stumped!

 

[sexy_kuta]

They date these men because them men are nothing but door mats to them, a ego booster, a pill to their insecurities. girls are insecure. when they have the ability to control their man, it gives them soo much power that they abuse it.

why dont you think there arent many good female leaders? who leads the house, the mother or father? lol simple logic. if you come across with this woman, and you give her a chance being controlled, she WILL like it, just because she hasnt experienced it doesnt mean she perfer afcs over real men, TAke control, MAKE her submit to you. she has the submissive trait, she just doesnt want to show it.

 

[Interceptor]

They gain a sense of accomplishment and a sense of control over their lives.
So it is a form of Ego Inflation as well.

People who feel they lack control, want to control others.
In this situation, the female is used to all the attention and getting all the resources and calling the shots too, yet giving little if anything in return.


But it's all an illusion.

It's all stemmed from their deep rooted insecurity.

They usually come with a lot of drama and anxiety which they then dump into convenientntly located AFCs who withstand the abuse.