Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Girl looking to CONTROL the relationship

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Hey guys-

A question: When I date, I take control; set the pace, pick where we go, and show her a good time. I'm sexual, funny, calm, and confident. Everything is planned in advance; I don't stick to a routine schedule but have an overall game plan so there's none of that "alright well i'm all out of options, what do youuuuuu wanna do BS" I call the shots, and take the lead. (when first dating, after the first few- i let her pick some things, etc; no control freak by any means- but as the man I feel you must take a certain 'control')

Now: lets say a girl you are pursuing is used to dating AFC guys, having THEM buy her everything, bleeding to them about other guys, molding them to what she wants, or think she wants in a "partner". I say "partner" because these guys are no men IMO. Indecisive, insecure, clingy; everything you would think a women would NOT want.

So let me ask you; WHY would a girl prefer dating someone that is easy for her to control? Do some girls just NEED that type of "man"? Afraid to reach for something better, underlying psychological problems? I'm stumped!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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They date these men because them men are nothing but door mats to them, a ego booster, a pill to their insecurities. girls are insecure. when they have the ability to control their man, it gives them soo much power that they abuse it.

why dont you think there arent many good female leaders? who leads the house, the mother or father? lol simple logic. if you come across with this woman, and you give her a chance being controlled, she WILL like it, just because she hasnt experienced it doesnt mean she perfer afcs over real men, TAke control, MAKE her submit to you. she has the submissive trait, she just doesnt want to show it.
 
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They gain a sense of accomplishment and a sense of control over their lives.
So it is a form of Ego Inflation as well.

People who feel they lack control, want to control others.
In this situation, the female is used to all the attention and getting all the resources and calling the shots too, yet giving little if anything in return.


But it's all an illusion.

It's all stemmed from their deep rooted insecurity.

They usually come with a lot of drama and anxiety which they then dump into convenientntly located AFCs who withstand the abuse.
 
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