"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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girl looking at your lips every few seconds...

tosh

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... do they do this consciously or UNconsciously when they want you to kiss them?

I know it doesn't really matter, but I was curious. Maybe I should ask some of the girls who've done it to me in the past.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJDamage

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If you are looking for the holy grail answer as if she will give you a sign to kiss her, it ain't happening.

You got a pair of balls down there, just go for it and you will get your answer.
 

krasnyiLion

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if you think they want you to kiss them, then go ahead and do it. Their reaction will let you know.
they will either move their head, back up a little or kiss you back.
whatever happens DONT MAKE A BIG DEAL OUT OF IT!!!
just carry on
 

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No offence but both answers are slightly off-topic! I have no problem going in for the kiss. I've just noticed that quite a few girls will stare at your lips when they're prime, and wondering whether it's a conscious action. Anyway, doesn't matter.
 

krasnyiLion

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but yea, if they look at your eyes and your lips alot that is what it means.

they are putting a sign right in your face that says "are you going to make a move now?"
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Snow Plowman

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That is by far the most natural way to kiss in this whole community.

That is what is called Triangular gazing. Basically she is looking at your lips and looking at your eyes. You can do that to the girl and she'll know what you're thinking about also. I remember first time a girl did that it tripped me out, but yes anytime a girl does that she wants to kiss.

Triangular gazing to me is the best way to go in for the kiss.
 
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