"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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girl looking at your lips every few seconds...

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... do they do this consciously or UNconsciously when they want you to kiss them?

I know it doesn't really matter, but I was curious. Maybe I should ask some of the girls who've done it to me in the past.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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If you are looking for the holy grail answer as if she will give you a sign to kiss her, it ain't happening.

You got a pair of balls down there, just go for it and you will get your answer.
 
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if you think they want you to kiss them, then go ahead and do it. Their reaction will let you know.
they will either move their head, back up a little or kiss you back.
whatever happens DONT MAKE A BIG DEAL OUT OF IT!!!
just carry on
 
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No offence but both answers are slightly off-topic! I have no problem going in for the kiss. I've just noticed that quite a few girls will stare at your lips when they're prime, and wondering whether it's a conscious action. Anyway, doesn't matter.
 
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but yea, if they look at your eyes and your lips alot that is what it means.

they are putting a sign right in your face that says "are you going to make a move now?"
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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That is by far the most natural way to kiss in this whole community.

That is what is called Triangular gazing. Basically she is looking at your lips and looking at your eyes. You can do that to the girl and she'll know what you're thinking about also. I remember first time a girl did that it tripped me out, but yes anytime a girl does that she wants to kiss.

Triangular gazing to me is the best way to go in for the kiss.
 
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