"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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girl looking at your lips every few seconds...

tosh

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... do they do this consciously or UNconsciously when they want you to kiss them?

I know it doesn't really matter, but I was curious. Maybe I should ask some of the girls who've done it to me in the past.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DJDamage

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If you are looking for the holy grail answer as if she will give you a sign to kiss her, it ain't happening.

You got a pair of balls down there, just go for it and you will get your answer.
 

krasnyiLion

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if you think they want you to kiss them, then go ahead and do it. Their reaction will let you know.
they will either move their head, back up a little or kiss you back.
whatever happens DONT MAKE A BIG DEAL OUT OF IT!!!
just carry on
 

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No offence but both answers are slightly off-topic! I have no problem going in for the kiss. I've just noticed that quite a few girls will stare at your lips when they're prime, and wondering whether it's a conscious action. Anyway, doesn't matter.
 

krasnyiLion

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but yea, if they look at your eyes and your lips alot that is what it means.

they are putting a sign right in your face that says "are you going to make a move now?"
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Snow Plowman

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That is by far the most natural way to kiss in this whole community.

That is what is called Triangular gazing. Basically she is looking at your lips and looking at your eyes. You can do that to the girl and she'll know what you're thinking about also. I remember first time a girl did that it tripped me out, but yes anytime a girl does that she wants to kiss.

Triangular gazing to me is the best way to go in for the kiss.
 
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