“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Girl likes me, with a boyfriend

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Well, this threw up a huge red flag for me.

I found out a week or so ago that one of my good friends likes me, through one of her friends and she confirmed it later. Problem is, she's expecting me to ask her out or hit on her while she still has boyfriend. She went out with the kid for 3 weeks and then dumped him "because he was acting gay." Next day he asks her out and she says yes, again. It doesn't help that I've been gaming her cousin for a while, too.

At the moment, she's ticked off at me for not jumping all over the chance to be with her.

Am I over-reacting or is this a next?

If it's a next, I'd still like to be friends with her.

(I'd say she's an HB7ish, kinda prude, but what can I do? It's 8th grade.)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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daamn, i wish i found this site as soon as you did.

neways, its your choice. If you want her go for it, if not then just keep her as a friend.
But heres a tip, you never know when one day they just turn hot, so keep gaming her. Something I've experienced lots of times.
 
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Your situation is a little similar to another thread that just got posted in this forum.
Check out my post in this thread, although it may not have been directed to your problem, there are some vital points that can definetly help you out.

URL: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=134733

Hope I helped.
 
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noodle said:
daamn, i wish i found this site as soon as you did.

neways, its your choice. If you want her go for it, if not then just keep her as a friend.
But heres a tip, you never know when one day they just turn hot, so keep gaming her. Something I've experienced lots of times.
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haha i know.
like in 7th grade, u'd be like "get the fvck away from my u ugly b1tch!"

then in highschool it's like "holy sh1t! *drool*"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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lol gaming works in the 8th grade?
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I loosely read the Bible last year and I'm upping the aggressiveness of my game as time goes on and I can tell the people around me mature.

I'm 5'11" and 170 pounds, I can easily say I'm older. I've hooked up with 6 girls in the past year. The girl's cousin that I mention was the first time that I stopped to analyze what I was doing and she's into me.

I feel more confident in myself, but I can't tell you how I was before, because I was in one relationship before I came around here (which was my first experience with a slut, so it didn't go too well.) Hey, it seems like it's working, so I just keep going.
 
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holy ****, ur bigger than me and im like 6 yrs older
 
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Don't go for it. These always end badly.
 
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Well, I'm dealing with the same girl, she ditched her boyfriend and it's been a week or two. It's obvious she likes me, all her friends bug me to death to ask her out.

Do you guys have any C/F ways of asking girls to be your girlfriend?

I'm not afraid to do it bluntly, but it would be nice for keeping my value high going into the relationship. I'm willing to take a break from the game for a bit and I haven't been able to get to 1st base since October, it's a bit frustrating.
 
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Just ask her out plain and simple. Your only 13 years old it don't matter.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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