"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Girl likes me, with a boyfriend

Ether

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Well, this threw up a huge red flag for me.

I found out a week or so ago that one of my good friends likes me, through one of her friends and she confirmed it later. Problem is, she's expecting me to ask her out or hit on her while she still has boyfriend. She went out with the kid for 3 weeks and then dumped him "because he was acting gay." Next day he asks her out and she says yes, again. It doesn't help that I've been gaming her cousin for a while, too.

At the moment, she's ticked off at me for not jumping all over the chance to be with her.

Am I over-reacting or is this a next?

If it's a next, I'd still like to be friends with her.

(I'd say she's an HB7ish, kinda prude, but what can I do? It's 8th grade.)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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noodle

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daamn, i wish i found this site as soon as you did.

neways, its your choice. If you want her go for it, if not then just keep her as a friend.
But heres a tip, you never know when one day they just turn hot, so keep gaming her. Something I've experienced lots of times.
 

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Your situation is a little similar to another thread that just got posted in this forum.
Check out my post in this thread, although it may not have been directed to your problem, there are some vital points that can definetly help you out.

URL: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=134733

Hope I helped.
 

Crazy Asian

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noodle said:
daamn, i wish i found this site as soon as you did.

neways, its your choice. If you want her go for it, if not then just keep her as a friend.
But heres a tip, you never know when one day they just turn hot, so keep gaming her. Something I've experienced lots of times.
haha i know.
like in 7th grade, u'd be like "get the fvck away from my u ugly b1tch!"

then in highschool it's like "holy sh1t! *drool*"
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ether

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lol gaming works in the 8th grade?
I loosely read the Bible last year and I'm upping the aggressiveness of my game as time goes on and I can tell the people around me mature.

I'm 5'11" and 170 pounds, I can easily say I'm older. I've hooked up with 6 girls in the past year. The girl's cousin that I mention was the first time that I stopped to analyze what I was doing and she's into me.

I feel more confident in myself, but I can't tell you how I was before, because I was in one relationship before I came around here (which was my first experience with a slut, so it didn't go too well.) Hey, it seems like it's working, so I just keep going.
 

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holy ****, ur bigger than me and im like 6 yrs older
 

SinJester

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Don't go for it. These always end badly.
 

Ether

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Well, I'm dealing with the same girl, she ditched her boyfriend and it's been a week or two. It's obvious she likes me, all her friends bug me to death to ask her out.

Do you guys have any C/F ways of asking girls to be your girlfriend?

I'm not afraid to do it bluntly, but it would be nice for keeping my value high going into the relationship. I'm willing to take a break from the game for a bit and I haven't been able to get to 1st base since October, it's a bit frustrating.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Just ask her out plain and simple. Your only 13 years old it don't matter.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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