"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Girl likes me, I dont like her

kizza

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So I go to this saturday school, and there's two main classes. One class with most of the girls who I'm interested in, and my class. With 3 of us :( One little girl, me and this girl who it seems really likes me.

Problem is I don't like her. She's funny etc, but i'm not actually interested in her and her friends say she is interested in me. Now I wasn't too worried about this until she asked me out to town with her after the saturday school. Now i had a real excuse that i was busy, but tbh i don't feel like going out with her or anything. Being simple friends would be fine but thats about it.

I'm not sure if I should just ignore her and not talk to her to make her go away, or if I should specifically say something.

Any ideas on how to get her off me? (Sounds like a stupid question lol! But its bugging me).


Thanks.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The Shocker

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start acting AFC
 

goldenrocker91

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i had this problem once.
When her friends told me that she liked me i simply told them that i wasnt interested in her.
problem solved=]
 

kizza

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omg lol so simple. her friends did tell me that... i was like ye i thought she did - and left it there (bad move on my part). the subject is bound to come up sometime soon and ill just clearly say, "i'm not interested in her"
thanks - such an easy idea :p
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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limerick

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LJBF her and use her as a pivot or as social proof.
 
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